Cannot forget "her"?

[Anonymous]

I am very sensitive.. Cannot forget my ex.. Really had very deep feelings. I feel like I will not be able to love someone as much. Is this normal? :(

[Chris_8876]

It's definitely normal.
When you're with a woman you can basically become addicted to her. When the relationship ends you kind of go into a state of shock and start having withdrawls. You're used to being with her and the feeling of having someone. Over time you will get used to being away from her, and eventually your mind will start thinking about other women. You might always remember her, but she will slowly become less important to you.

[Asker]

We had a very, very special story, especially our meeting and getting to know each other stage. It was really difficult but felt so good once I started dating her. She will remain special forever. With all the experience and time we have had together, I find it very unlikely to have with other women. I hope the next woman will make me forget everything from top to the bottom. But I don't know how long I will be out. I feel like even after 5 years I will not feel as good.

[Chris_8876]

You need to also acknowledge that there's likely some major problem in the relationship that led to the breakup. Maybe there's cheating involved, fighting, abuse on one side or the other?
Maybe there were things going on that you don't even know about.
It all depends how it ended, but you just focusing on the good times you had with her isn't going to help you move on.

[romoney]

A year ago at this exact time of the year, I was in your boat. I had very dark thoughts and all of the above. I allowed myself to cry as long as I needed to and I picked myself up. You come out stronger when you fight battles alone. You will definitely move on. I too thought it would last forever, but it didn't. Your next relationship will be more stable, too.

[Asker]

We had a very, very special story, especially our meeting and getting to know each other stage. It was really difficult but felt so good once I started dating her. She will remain special forever. With all the experience and time we have had together, I find it very unlikely to have with other women. I hope the next woman will make me forget everything from top to the bottom. But I don't know how long I will be out. I feel like even after 5 years I will not feel as good.

[boggboss]

When was the breakup

[Asker]

It's been like 12 days.. I did break up before but i did not feel like this.. It is so bad

[boggboss]

Yeah its normal because u had feelings ofc