If you were pissed at somebody Would you consider contacting them in a couple of months?

[Anonymous]

If say you were mad at someone would you cut it off for good or were there instances where you spoke to them again? Most often if somebody treated me badly and come back later I’ll not welcome it. But I heard some people are cool with it if some time has passed

[Unknown_Swan_]

It would really depend as to why I got mad at them in the first place.

My personal opinion is people do deserve second chances, but it depends on whether or not they warrant a second chance with me depending on what they've done.
All friends and boyfriends/girlfriends have cross words, arguments and heated moments with each other. That's human emotion and behavior. As long as it's not verbally or physically violent it's to be expected in friendships and sexual-romantic relationships.

More severe things, that's a different picture.
Betrayal from a friend or sexual-romantic partner to me is the ultimate deal breaker.
By all means 'forgive them', but forgiveness isn't being best friends and lovers again.
It's accepting what has happened, moving on from it and allowing that person a chance to redeem themselves in the long term towards others. They've already messed up their chances with me and hurt me deeply, so I'd wish them well on their way and cut them off for good with no anger/resentment attached. That's forgiveness to me and I would hope they repent and become better people.

We all make mistakes in life.
A quality person that feels genuinely bad for their own immorality and actions will want forgiveness, understand and take responsibility for their own actions, and repent for the better in the long-term.

[whereismyjohnny]

I can't really stay mad for too long when it comes to arguments tbh.

I only had one situation where I cut it off, and it's done for good because I was putting up with their shit for years. I don't hold a grudge or anything, I just don't want them to be part of my life anymore. I tolerated too much and I don't need that toxicity in my life.

[Wise4myage]

Sure, I've done that before with a few friends.