Would you try to contact a friend after a fight or wait it out for a few months?

[Anonymous]

I had an online fight with a friend and I’m a bit disappointed in their reaction. They have overreacted to something I said earlier deleting me off Snapchat before trying to talk things out. Of course I got mad at that and told him on text that I won’t tolerate this disrespectful behaviour and that he’s being rude. He got real mad and told me to mind my own business as the conversation went. I’m probably never going to speak to them but it still stings. Would it be a mistake if I tried to talk things through in a few months? Or just leave it alone?

[Qwerrtty]

I feel talking things out few months later is bullshit... if you guys can't put your egos aside and apologize now then you can forget about the friendship unless a matured one apologies first

[Asker]

Well I don’t feel comfortable with a confrontation right now. I might just leave it alone

[Qwerrtty]

Your choice

[whereismyjohnny]

I would say try it sort out now or leave it alone 😐

[Asker]

Oh but I have anxiety so I definitely won’t be able to talk to him rn. Especially after he deleted me. I was thinking in the summer when I’m not studying anymore

[Danny_dan92]

Give them some time to cool off

[Asker]

Yeah honestly I can’t deal with it rn. I’m studying till June and if the conversation doesn’t go well it will hurt my studies. Has happened with other people before

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah, you seem to understand