What would you do if a friend stopped talking to you for several months?

[Anonymous]

I got a friend who hasn’t made any efforts to connect to me since like May. I’m not the type of person to text my friends everyday or every week anyways, so I don't know why she stopped altogether as if we were never friends. Sure, breaks are chill and sometimes I don’t talk to friends for a month or longer, but in her case she has stopped reaching out completely for several months and the only interaction she gives me is likes on IG. Last time I checked in with her in June, and jokingly asked why she is so quiet. She replied with an amicable tone apologizing and said she’s caught up with work and school. I was like alright, but still thought that was a weird excuse. She hasn’t reached out to me again since June either, even after I discreetly pointed out she’s being passive.

what to do then? I don’t think texting her again is a good idea. I’m either gonna pretend she was never my friend or block her so that I don’t have to keep thinking about why she’s being distant.

[robvc1]

I think you should meet up and talk it out you know.

From what I read it is simple. You don't send much to her so she probably feels like the friendship only came from her side and not yours.

She still reacts on your texts so that means she doesn't hate or dislike you.
She probably wants you to do more effort for being her friend. Because she feels that she is the only one being friendly.

I think that's the reason she doesn't really text you first anymore.

So ask her to meet up and talk to her that's the solution on this case.