You need to understand that you don't have "guy friends." You might think you do, but you don't. Any "guy friends" you think you have are really guys who want to have sex with you but don't have the nerve to hit on you directly, and so they're Friend-Zoning themselves, hoping that if they hang around with you, that you'll eventually figure out what a good guy he is and you'll make a move on him - or at least will make yourself vulnerable to him making a move on you.
Now, occasionally (maybe 5% of the time), when a guy likes you, he actually has romantic/relationship feelings for you. It's possible - though the math will tell you it's unlikely - that this is how he feels about you. But the majority of the time, the guy is really only interested in having sex with you. Either way, these guys lack confidence, so they hope to find a way in by being your "friend." They aren't really your friend, though - a real friend has no ulterior motives, and these guys definitely have ulterior motives.
What you decide to do with this information is completely up to you - I won't tell you how to live your life - but at least understand exactly what it is you are dealing with, so that any decision you make is fully informed.
Making assumptions, and putting labels on others, will never lead to a quality relationship. Everything that is done is done for a reason. The object is to discover the reason, not deny there's a reason. Show people you want to learn rather than come across as if you have all the answers. Clear, open, honest communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship.
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I really don't know I have your friend it kinda is doing the same thing I sent a few messages but no return so I just kind of figured that there has to be some kind of reason. So I just kind of like Let It Go and I guess when she wants to reach out again she will but yeah I have that same curiosity going on right now
Just because you don't know the reason doesn't mean their isn't one
