Do You Believe High Quality Women Are Far & Few?

[Anonymous]

I've been watching YouTube videos by "Better Bachelor" and "Alexander Grace." They both claim that high quality women are rare. I attached a video that explains this.

[MCheetah]

Absolutely. 100% agree.

And I don't even mean the individual specific version of a "high quality woman." I just mean a woman who appreciates her man, doesn't see him as a resource provider and walking ATM, and has a decent, genuinely good personality.

I'd say maybe 1% of women AT MOST in big cities in Western countries meet this criteria. And maybe 4% in small towns in Western countries and in non-Western countries (Korean women aren't exactly much better than American women).

Compare this to men, who I'd say maybe 20% of good ones that are out there. That means even in Best Case Scenario numbers, there'd only be one good woman for every four good men out there. Sounds accurate to me. Especially when you realize men over six feet tall make up only one-fifth of the male population. Along with men who are higher than a 6 out of ten in looks.

If only 4% of women out there aren't sh*tty and only 20% of men, then that leaves the four out of five men who aren't tall Chads SOL.

Once again, sounds accurate to me.

[Asker]

I enjoyed reading your response and gave it a "thumbs up." According to your chart, do you think it's always been this way?

[MCheetah]

Hypergamy has always been a thing, since women are physically smaller, weaker, and used to have a harder time surviving childbirth in the past. But ever since the 1970s or so, we've been stuck in this messed up, double-standard reality where women want equality when it benefits them, and traditional gender roles when it doesn't. THAT is the true problem, here.

And this entitlement, selfishness, narcissism, and "yes, slay queen" bullsh*t modern feminism has been pumping out is WHY so few decent women still exist in modern Western society. Meanwhile, men have been becoming more emasculated and effeminate since the 90s as well. The most awful men and women exist in the Millennials generation, which are people born from the late 80s to the late 90s.

While Millennials have sh*tty people in both genders, feminism, as toxic as it is, has been brainwashing women into thinking they have to become pseudo "Alpha Males" in order to succeed, ironically becoming their idea of "toxic masculinity" but on a woman. Because the message is clear: Femininity is a "weakness" to these people. Meanwhile, men have been becoming these b*tch boys and pussies, especially in Europe and Canada, that no straight woman would respect or value.

The TL;DR is, the further people stray from traditional gender roles, the less "high quality" they end up being, and the more people remain single and unhappy. Trying to ask a woman to be a man is like trying to ask a rabbit to be a tiger. Or a lion to be a cow.

[Asker]

As far as entitlement is concerned, I know several young and attractive women that accept unsolicited gifts from older men. They tell these men that they aren't available but graciously accept their gifts. My Mom told me that I shouldn't accept gifts from men that I'm not interested in because these men have ulterior motives.

So what? These young and pretty women are living it up. They enjoy all these gifts and entitlements. You Go Girl! If these men think they have a chance that's their own fault. What's wrong with enjoying what God gave you? Men who are intelligent enjoy the A's they are getting. I just don't understand what's wrong with accepting gifts because of their entitlement.

[MCheetah]

I already explained, it's the double standards.
When women exploit and use men, and then get mad when these men stalk them or heaven forbid, even end up raping them. Like these women have no blame or fault on their own to mind-f*ck men, and then act surprised when these men start getting more and more aggressive with them. Although I do agree that these men are suckers. That's why I don't pay a woman sh*t. Women use and con other men all the time, but NOT ME!

[Asker]

I tried to look for a chart that reversed it. Do you think the chart would be the same if it showed male preferences? If not, what do you think it would look like?

[MCheetah]

That already exists. Hypergamy is a female-only thing. Men don't look for taller, wealthier, stronger, more confident, more successful partners than them. Most men just want someone who's hot and treats him well.

[Asker]

When I go to the mall, or a restaurant, and I see couples they look, in my opinion, about average. I don't see average women with hot looking guys. It seems to me that each has a partner that is about equal to their own looks. It's only rare I see an average woman with a hot guy. I have seen older, not so handsome man, with a hot woman.

It seems to me that if the charts were true, then most couples would have an average woman with a hot guy.

[MCheetah]

It's not just looks. Pretty much, the ONLY thing the woman needs, are looks. (Not to be an 8 or 9, just more attractive than the guy.) While the man needs... Everything else. Height/tallness, he needs to make more money, be charming, be confident, be successful (relatively; at least more successful than her), and so on.

It's social status, confidence, height, wealth, and courtship that a man needs. A woman only needs looks (she can have an awful personality and plenty of men will take her. Look at Johnny Depp and Elon Musk's ex.)

[HawkPerception]

Very very few high quality women out there in my opinion. My "body count" is 1 at 28. I'd rather not end up with a girl that sleeps with a new guy every month after she goes out for "fun" with her friends.

[SaltyBeaches]

I think high quality people are few and far between.

[Asker]

Do you it's always been this way?

[SaltyBeaches]

I think it's worse now than in the past.

[Anonymous]

Yes! I've said this repeatedly on here. I don't think a lot of women really understand what makes a quality woman anymore. You can't entirely blame them. Most don't have very good role models of womanhood. And that plays a big part.

[inthewasteland]

The average woman is inherently high quality. Men in the manosphere want to have it both ways: resent women needing to put in substantially less effort to attract a mate and act as if most men determine if a woman over 25 will be in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

I never slept around, so I want a girl that is like that too, and it seems that they are becoming less and less.

[Asker]

How do you know that it's becoming less than less?

[Opinion Owner]

Just from having one experience after another and from what you see on dating apps.

[JesseJayNeak]

Yes. Because hookup culture

[Kiran_Yagami]

Yes.