I like my boyfriend but I have this feeling that I should break up with him, should I do it?

[Anonymous]

i like him but I hate traveling more then 4 hours just to see him every 3 days in the month. I understand that he works but I have always expected something different when it came to a relationship considering that this one is my first. Their is also one thing that I don't like and it is that he is always asking me to marry him even though we don't even have that long dating.

[Lliam]

There is such a thing as GU (geographically undesirable). My (future) wife almost rejected me as GU at first because we lived almost an hour away from each other.

You're current boyfriend also sounds inexperienced and immature to be talking about marriage at this early stage.

When I'm in a relationship, I want to see that person all the time. At least once a week, if not every day.

My advice to you is to continue searching for boyfriends. It's a matter of trial and error. Don't think that you have to be loyal to the first guy you ever met. I mean, I admire loyalty. It's a wonderful trait and is essential for a perfect relationship. But you're very young and should be seeking the perfect match instead of just settling.

If you keep at it, you'll find the perfect partner one day, one that you know you want to spend the rest of your life with. Don't rush it.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your advice!. He is a good person but I keep getting a feeling of wanting more of a relationship and I also don't want to have any regrets in the future because is just how you said am very young.

[slatyb]

Yes, you should. It's not working for you. Date someone local to you.

Also there's this: "... he is always asking me to marry him even though we don't even have that long dating." This is a RED FLAG and a sign that he is too immature to marry anyone.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

That's a long commute for not a lot.

If you really like him, consider having a good sit down and talk about what you expected and want and see if you guys can accomodate that.

But if you don't really love him/you're not feeling it, yeah. Leave him. Just be as gentle and respectful as you can, and remember to ask about availability when you start dating again.

[Secret6620]

If a long distance relationship is too difficult to maintain, then you should definitely consider other options.

If you can't move closer or he can't move closer, it might be a good time to have a talk with one another about your future.

[Secret6620]

Thank you for most helpful girl! Yay!

[Staximus]

Find a boyfriend who lives no more than a 30 minute drive away.

[007kingifrit]

yea that's too far away. doesn't matter how much you like him. maybe be single for a while in your area

[Iron_Man]

You should’ve known this from the very first time four hour drives

[Paul09]

Yeaaahh so strange talking about marriage.. especially a man. Well long distance relationship are extremely hard. I know I would not be able to do it. Then one of you would have to move. But just know he is not the only man on the planet.

[omnivert]

Wait for a month, if there is no spark then make a spark or forget it.

[Asker]

I will take your advice into consideration. Thank you 😊

[Luckycharms12]

You aren't happy just break up

[In_Trance]

That doesn't sound like Like to me 🤔