U ever love someone ur not attracted to physically/ grossed out by physically?

[Anonymous]

i met a girl online i never saw,. for like a year, i fell in love with her personality, but when i saw a picture of her i dont know how to feel, i feel it hard to have a real life physical relationship with someone im physically grossed out with, its a weird feeling like i still love her personality but i dont want a relationship with her and im trying to ignore her, even tho its hard to im trying to cos dont wanna lead her on

i jus could never have an actual physical relationship with someone i think is ugly,

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i jus dont wanna be tryna hold back from puking when im kiss them or something u know?
doesn't make sense, in my opinion its stupid to date someone u find ugly, it makes sense to date someone ur physically attracted to

[meetkitty123]

Ouch your words are harsh. What exactly is ugly? Because ugly to you may not be ugly to another. Can you find a picture online that looks similar to this girl?
I personally have dated a few men which society would call not attractive. I also rejected two men who wanted more than friendship because I was not attracted to them due more to hygiene. One had a crooked nose missing teeth, the teeth he had were yellow from chew tobacco a hunch on one shoulder and a foot stuck far outward so he walked with a dragging limp. Worst was he stunk of cigarettes. The other was tall skinny beady close together eyes one lazy eye large odd shape nose greasy flaky hair a lisp spat as he talked excess formy saliva at the corner of mouth plus cold sore on the lips but what made him very unattractive was the fact he NEVER blew his nose. He always boogers in his nose or dripping into his mustache. He lick at it but never clean it. If I'd tell him to go clean up he always say what I have allergies.