Do you think a stay at home house husband has a significant chance of getting cheated by his wife, why, why not?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends on the couple and why they decided for him to stay home. There are a whole bunch of factors involved.

For the woman it depends on how status oriented she is. A woman who is heavily status driven will only be attracted to a man who has equal or higher in social status. She’ll be working a job which is all about status, and she’ll be working around other men most likely, who are higher status than her husband. That woman is most likely to cheat, almost guaranteed. A woman who isn’t that way, doesn’t care much about status and works mainly with other women, isn’t so much.

It also depends on the nature of the relationship, how it began, what attracted the woman to the man. Many relationships are transactional in nature, even if this is not something that has been openly spoken about. If what attracted the woman to the man is his ability to provide, and the man equates his ability to provide with manhood (there’s more to masculinity than that), take that away and she has no reason to be attracted to him anymore, thus is more likely to cheat. If she’s attracted for reasons other than that then not so much.

For the man, it depends on how masculine he is. Notice how whenever people speak about stay at home husbands they put him in an apron, and often pink cleaning gloves, to make him look like he’s been completely emasculated? Yeah if a guy is like that his wife is definitely getting it elsewhere because that completely kills the masculine vs feminine polarity. A man can stay at home and not act like a woman.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

They both have the same chances.

However from having at times being a house husband, especially as a single father.

There are a shit load of bored house wives around.

Their husbands leave the house at say 7am and get home at 6pm, dinner and then TV from 7pm until 11pm and then bed. That is repeated daily.

Now throw in a guy who is also doing the same thing of staying at home, doing school run and same coffee shops…

Getting in with Bored housewives, is like getting a room at the pussy palace.

They talk to you about everything, you listen, given them a shoulder to cry on or agree with how hard they have it….

It really is not worrying about your husband at work, it’s worrying about what your wife is doing at home with Mr Copeland from number 69.

however, yeah both can cheat equally.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Men sound like clowns when they think that taking traditionally feminine roles will make women treat them like they've treated women foe the past few generations: being abusive, oppressive and sexist.
The truth is, no. Being a stay at home husband and being cheated on has no correlation. "Oh but the wife will resent him, not respect him, have lots of guys around her at work, yadda yadda" that's simply bullshit. Unlike most men women are very respectful towards the ones who do house chores because we've been historically forced to take those roles from a young age. And if it's an agreement between the couple there's no reason to resent him. And, also unlike most men, women don't cheat because they have someone available for them. The truth is, any woman in a relationship is attractive enough to have men available for her at any given time; women constantly make the decision to stay faithful and not cheat. Meanwhile, many guys would jump at the opportunities to cheat as soon as it appears. Associating the typical patriarchal image of a sexist macho who works all day and cheats his wife and all that jazz with the modern woman who works while her husband stays at home is stupid.

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

Hell no! A man who tends to the home and the children is a God sent! The cost of daycare is ridiclous. Abot 300 to 800 a week!. Furthermore Do you have any idea how hard it is for some women to get their guys to watch the kids long enough for a little nap! A man who can do that and so much more is like A trease and one to thanked often bragged about to family oh but... Never bragged about to other women... Lol unless you want to be chasing them off your man!
A stay at home daddy shouldn't have any more higher chances of getting cheated on than a stay at home mom... If anything he just might have less of a chance of it happening.

Tinana · Answer

Why would anyone want to cheat on a house husband or a house wife that’s just horrible 🥺 they’re literally the ones supporting your dreams by sacrificing theirs. Some people don’t understand the sacrifice it takes to put one’s ambition to the back seat for the one you love. If they weren’t there doing all these things taking care of the kids, your meals, the house. You won’t reach your financial goals either because you’d be stuck doing all these things and trying to balance work. I know I can’t be a housewife or expect my husband to be a house husband. But even if he is, I would love him for that and can’t imagine cheating on him. I’m AMBITIOUS so I can’t even fathom the love someone could have for me that would make him put his ambition behind for mine. My work would be to always constantly please him and know we are a team in this. 🥺 good cooked meals I’m sold body and spirit to him ☺️

Apulu_Imback · Answer

Yes it is easier for the women if she have cheating intentions. It is same when one is housewife. Men who have cheating intentions have it easy. However if she if she is a good women and loves him then she won't cheat on him. After all he cares for her more than his dreams. Who would want to loose such husband.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

All I know is that during 3 years of my relationship I haven’t even flirted with anyone and If I talked with men, I was bragging about my boyfriend 🤣

So, whether my future husband is stay at home or not, if I choose him to be by my side I won’t degrade nor myself not him to the point if cheating.

Emiliamazing · Answer

My husband is self-employed and does a lot of the traditional house work as well as running errands and getting the kids to their various activities because I travel a lot. We have a wonderful trust that I would never break and I hope he doesn’t either. I think each individual in any relationship has equal chances, hence the buildup of mutual trust is terrifically important

DWornock · Answer

All husband have a significant chance of being a cuckold but the risk is even greater for house husbands because society and wives have little respect for them. While he is at home, especially if the wife works, there are too many opportunities for her to meet some hot coworker or some other sexy guy.

Razzmatazz09090 · Answer

Well I can't speak for every woman, but I know after my personal experience I think it's very likely. And the reason why being that her coworkers might get her to go out after work to the bar, it might become a nightly thing, she might pass out from being drunk and fall on her co-workers dick.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Ofc he's going to get cheated on. Women dont respect men who do the female role. I can just say most of my guy friends say otherwise and they always get treated like shit. Where i refuse to touch house chores and women behave way more for me than them. I've never personally met a couple where the man does house chores and the woman respects him, so i believe its pretty common way women are.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely.

There is a study that has shown that divorce is more likely if the wife gets a pay raise but the likelihood remains the same if the husband gets one.

There is no mention of who initiated the divorce but given that women initiate the majority of divorces I'm going to say that women would not appreciate the househusband role.

Anonymous · Answer

I got cheated on after doing cooking and cleaning and majority of work while still studying/earning. Since men helping in households, cooking is very uncommon, women see it as less manly. They say online that they like those kinds of guys but go for a more traditional kind of guys in reality. Over time they will tease you as a woman and make fun of you, even if you have a job.

Sarahnah · Answer

If he's being extremely helpful around the house then I don't see how that would make him more likely to cheated on, if anything it'd be less likely.

So I'll say no, as long as the woman can afford to support the household on one income.

SlangSlayer · Answer

As long as your fit and not a hitch and bring ing money in women ain't gone chest I seen women chase bums and take care of them and have their kids.

DCPowered · Answer

If it's a woman that is specifically with you because you are a house husband then I'd say no, b/c she is getting what she wants.
If she doesn't want a house husband and you insist on being one then YES, she will look elsewhere.

msc545 · Answer

All men have a significant chance of being cheated on by their wife or female partner.

boggboss · Answer

Without the context of the two in question would say to the same degree a housewife has the chance to cheat

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely. The wife ends up resenting him and is surrounded by guys at work

007kingifrit · Answer

yes. women are just not as attracted to a non provider

ShadowMonarch · Answer

I don't think so... It all depends upon the couple's feeling for each other

Subarugirl · Answer

Not really anymore than a stay at home wife does...

CloudMassacre · Answer

I would have to look up the statistics on cheating to know

Msputiton · Answer

No more than any other guy

Waldoe · Answer

No... have a cheating wife increases the chance...

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yes because hookup culture

jimmy2 · Answer

In these times yes

AdithyaR · Answer

Not at all

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