First off, find a therapist who specializes in communication, as it sounds like your key issue is dysfunctional communication. That way, the two of you can learn effective communication skills together. Just saying he's going to communicate doesn't mean he has any training or knows what works and what doesn't. Will you be able to master any skill without acquiring it first?
Professor Hill's "Think System" from the Music Man doesn't work. Reading "The Secret" and believing things will happen just by wishing doesn't work. Time doesn't heal all wounds. It's what we do with the time that determines the outcome. If you don't acquire and use the skills, you'll find yourselves right back where you started.
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I only have one question that you need to ask yourself.
Have you fixed what caused you guys to break up initially? Because you can start slow OR fast, if you haven't there is literally no point in trying again. Break ups are worse 2nd time around if the reason is the same.. It becomes far more final with far more heartbreak!
So for months y'all were having issues that you couldn't solve, but now just magically it'll get worked out? Yeah, that doesn't happen.
Oh I wouldn’t define it etc. I would jus see what happens… also don’t know the dynamics of the breakup.
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