Is it bad that I don't woo things that my finance does?

[Anonymous]

I feel it's bad like sweet things he does I don't really woo over in the beginning I sort of did but I never felt like super huge excitement like for an example singing the words to a song

[PrettyPriya]

I call this being past the "honeymoon" phase where things start to normalize and those feelings of excitement fade a bit. Now, that is different for everyone and occurs at different times.

Sounds to me that he is not over it. Perfectly natural. Just be thankful he still does sweet things and learn to appreciate them, even if you don't find them exciting anymore.

The alternative to that is he could treat you like he doesn't care for you. Which would you prefer I guess?

[Asker]

I just feel like I should be feel excited we have been together for 3 and half years or so and I honestly don't remember feeling all that excited in the beginning ethier

[Asker]

I should be excited*

[boobliker]

ask you self if you want to be with him my girls boobs are bigger when she first get here for about an hour and i feel bubbly inside too.

[Wise4myage]

No, but why not start?

[Asker]

Because I'm not gonna force what's not there just would feel fake to me