Why are along of girls purposely rude to me or cold when interacting with me?

[Anonymous]

I'm not much of a looker nor am I financially stable nor charming & I've noticed that when I interact with the opposite gender that they tend to get very cold & snobbish towards me on instinct

I've seen them treat others regardless of gender much better

[dustybiker]

It might be the way you present yourself. Facial expressions, the way you speak, tone, body language. People tend to reflect back a behavior they receive when meeting someone. If you are giving off a vibe, you might not even know it, but it would be given back to you in return. Especially the case if it’s happening frequently, as you describe.

Best bet would be to ask your friends what they think.

[Smashingdoozy]

Maybe you're coming across pushy, annoying, creepy.

[Asker]

Do females in general get this way with ugly fools from the very start?

Very sarcastic, aloof,"nervous", arrogannt?

Every gal I've met gets this way with me from the get go & I'm not even attempting to chat

[Smashingdoozy]

Maybe it's just your vibes

[Asker]

I've had many gals in my neighborhood want to squabble with me

[Smashingdoozy]

Yet "every gal you've met gets this way with you from the get go and you're not even attempting to chat"