How get over a guy with a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I like this my aunt’s best friend’s son who’s taken. I’m staying at my aunts for while and he’s over all the time we don’t really even talk but he’s really cute, he’s super friendly and funny. I get I need to move on, I’m just so caught up on him some reason I can’t place. I can’t just find a replacement or anything since I’m not really great with guys in general. But I’m in no means gong after a guy who’s taken (if he would cheat on her why would’t he cheat on me + respect) and he’s not interested but I literally cannot get him out of my head no matter what I do. Like I make up all of these scenarios in my head wear he actually likes me or at least we become friends. It’s been like a month now and I’m still trying to stop with this literal bs. How do I get over this for my own sake of not looking like a total idiot?

[jennifer_bloom]

Betty white was very rich and could have stolen another woman’s husband but she chose to marry a single widow instead because her morals would not let her commit adultery with a married man, so my advice to you is to get your morals and lifestyle and character in mint condition until a single man appears and has eyes for you and only you and if you really do like this guy, they might break up one day with no interference or pressure from you - let nature and the cosmos control your love life and be a decent and honourable person.

[Anonymous]

Get busy and distract yourself with other things. Don't keep thinking about him. And if you start, or when you see him, your thoughts are "he's not available" and go do something else. It's only making it worse the more you let yourself think about him.

[dreamstar72]

Focus on cheating (his) + respect (his+gf) = total loser (you)
I’m not disrespecting you I’m just tell you that you will lose on this one.

[Guy13]

Focus on something else…

[Asker]

I literally do though I have ton of hobbies and I’m always busy but he still makes it into my mind or like dreams and shit.