Would you be upset if your partner went to a bar while they’re away on vacation?

[sheikalana]

[ohshee]

Take a deep breath if you can't trust them you should not be withthem

Going on vacation is being free is exploring experiencing new things it doesn't mean exploring new people and if they do that they will get caught and then you have to deal with that but there's no reason to be upset about something that you don't know you only think that's a waste of time
You can't control your partner you either trust them or you don't

And always remember this when we are in a relationship no matter what we do everything has to complete a circle

I will use me as a example
Let's pretend I'm going out with a girl I go on vacation
I meet a girl we have fun vacations over I go home I left I come back I complete a circle I left I came back but I cheated that starts another circle with the girl that I cheated with look at the Circle as a clock just a matter of time before something comes up and that's where everything changes and now the girl I was going out with she has that right to be upset now but don't be upset for something you don't know because it changes who you are too when you do that are who you are meant to be that wasn't very good analogy probably but maybe you can read between the lines and get what I'm saying

[Anonymous]

A bar is a single persons place to hook up. It’s not meant for people who are already in relationships. If your partner is going to bars alone then I wouldn’t put it past them cheating. It’s 2022. Cheating is happening everyday. And if your partner knows you aren’t there to see what they are doing, you better believe they would try something. Don’t put it past anyone. It doesn’t matter how innocent or nice or kind. If they want to do single people stuff, let them be single.

[collie22]

i don't know about taking a vacation with out my SO. that's a red flag to me

[Apple1996]

Nah I trust my husband enough so him going out doesn't bother me

[matchrestore]

Nope. Why would I be? I definitely wouldn't expect her to just sit in her hotel room the whole vacation

[Pyrofox]

My partner is too small to handle much more than a non alcoholic beverage.

[Adam1978]

If I had a partner I would expect to share vacation with them. It's not something you do alone in a relationship. So there wouldn't be any bar visits.

[Anonymous]

No. Don't be insecure about what MIGHT happen. Just deal with what does happen. Too much in this world to deal with as is. Being controlling is... just... exhausting.

[exitseven]

No, i would not expct her to sit i the hotel room the whole time. Relationships are about trust.

[mandyfire98]

I wouldn't because I'd trust them

[Andres77]

Why the hell did she go on a vacation without me?

[Caunsos]

Why are they on vacation with out me?

[Nerdvana]

lol. no.