Why does my boyfriend not want to see me naked?

[Christina029]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 years now and we have a kid. For about the past 2 years our sex lives have been pretty much completely none existent. It's even to the point that when I'm naked or going around without a shirt on, he tells me to cover up or that "no one wants to see that". He doesn't really compliment me and I've been feeling very insecure lately because of it. I'm honestly very hurt and I feel like he isn't attracted to me and doesn't love me anymore. I've told him how I've felt and he kinda just dismissed my feelings. Any advice?

[Sour-rose]

o hell no, he's hiding something or not likin' you. Something is definitely up with him. And he needs to come clean. Otherwise, this could get worse to the point that one of you snaps and just leaves. Kid or not.

[hIopinionated_]

He probably expected your body to go back to the way it was post baby not understanding (most men) once a woman gives them a child, her body and emotions will never be the same


I would assume that’s one of the major annoying things about being a mother. You sacrifice everything to give this guy a baby and he gets it for free while you had to pay the price for it


Having a kid will never be worth it

[soe11]

My honest advice, rid of him, he is not deserve you love and kindness.
Be confident get free from him.
I respect my girlfriend whatever she wear or nude.
End of the day my girlfriend.

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s a shame he doesn’t desire you. Has he given you any compliments recently or do you think there are things you could do to appear more attractive?

[Christina029]

Nope none recently, I get dressed up and do my makeup and he still doesn't say anything. I shower every day I'm not unhygienic by any means. I dont understand it.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ha ha I’m glad you shower, means you are taking care of yourself. But are you also healthy and do you exercise and work out?

[Christina029]

Oh yeah and I eat relatively healthy and im not over weight I'm only 130lbs.

[BarryLiverstone]

Hmm.. I mean at one point he must have been into you if you all got together and had a baby. But what’s confusing is why hasn’t he proposed?

[Christina029]

I also question that, especially since he proposed to the girl he was with before me, they were only together for a year. And yeah I dont know what's happening, it just kinda sucks.

[BarryLiverstone]

Definitely sucks. I mean at what point do you start to consider finding another guy? I guess one thing I would suggest is you and him get away for a weekend together just the two of you and do something you both really enjoy. That change of scenery could generate some hidden passion. Have you taken many vacations together without your child?

[Christina029]

Nope, none. And yeah I guess that would be a good place to start

[BarryLiverstone]

Just trying to think what’s on his mind and he may be depressed or feel like he’s stuck in a way of being with you and his child. But unless he’s seeing someone else or has a low sex drive it’s confusing why he wouldn’t like to see you naked yk

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you all talk openly about your sex life and have you explored fun things like role play or bondage to mix it up?

[Daniela1982]

What happened? Did you gain a lot of weight or something? Or maybe your guy has turned gay , as this seems a bit unusual.

[Jessicajones4]

You’ve had a baby I’m going to assume your body is different now than it was before is why he’s acting that way. I’m not saying he’s right but that’s how he feels, if that’s your partner and he’s not happy or attracted to you right now you might want to work on it so you guys can get back to how you used to be to when he was attracted

[Emilyis]

He's probably seeing someone else. I would keep an eye on him.

[Shamalien]

If u ent overweight then I don't know why he’s lose attraction

[Luckycharms12]

Think you both need night of passionate romantic sexy no kid

[QuietRunner]

not sure

usually that means he isn't horny

so maybe he is masturbating a lot or fucking someone else

[boggboss]

So u have had a conversation about nit being happy

[Avicenna]

Only he could know, but maybe he is depressed

[MountAverage]

Yeah, you need to get a new boyfriend.

[KrakenAttackin]

Did you put on a lot of weight?

[In_Trance]

ask you boyfriend why

[h3ll00]

Sex is a phase, girl. Life has more to it

[AssholeNumberOne]

Not cool, guy.

[legalboxers]

probably cheating...