If you had to choose, would you take a sexy woman or a kind woman?

Question

Doesn't mean the kind woman is ugly, she just doesn't have that head-turning allure. The sexy woman is just a handful.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I talked about this all the time when you meet somebody or when I meet somebody I want to know who they are on the inside I want to know how beautiful their heart is if they are Giver of self if they are kind if they are smart if they are happy can you can only do that by knowing the person from the inside the real person the outside of a person is all just an extra bonus there's different levels of sexy but I find a woman that is smart intelligent confident and Beautiful on the inside very hot very sexy that's who she truly is the outside is just all an extra bonus but if she has nothing on the inside and she just looks good on the outside she's not really my style so I would take the kind woman

bean2k21 · Accepted Answer

I don't know what could be sexier than a kind woman, especially if she's kind enough to have sex with you.

Anonymous · Answer

KIND FOR SURE.
Infact I tend to gravitate to kind women and spend more time talking to them. It does not matter if they are "fat", feel they are ugly... or what ever the stigma is.
I have been told many times I am kind and this seems to attract women as well.

Here is the thing for me. I am supportive, reasuring, listening, forgiving, encouraging, comforting, fun loving, light heatred...
I want this as well in a mate. I want to be able to take the hard time I am having and find support. Or when I make mistakes and feel awful to be reassured that its ok. I want to be encouraged to not give up.

And making love to and holding a kind person is just so much warmer.

Sadly my experience is that my x would take my struggles personal and add to them. The "why don't you" nags and rejections is horrible from even a super model.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I register personality more than looks.

And also, looks... They decay. They change. I don't care as much about whether my partner is head turning as much as I care that they make my heart pound.

It's easy to look head turning. Add some make up, a hair cut, maybe some months working on body composition. Smile.

But to be heart pounding? That's a bigger, harder to obtain standard. Lots more effort goes into that.

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

I'd take the kind woman in a heartbeat, the sexy woman might turn my head and keep me interested to look at but I won't stay with her if that's all there is. At the end of the day, I want to be with someone that will give me peace and make me feel excited to be with. One of the things that has always drawn me to a girl was kindness, and more than that but the willingness to help others.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Sex is one very small part of the life, what to do with the other time...
If you are saying that the sexy woman is also a kind woman, then I would think about it.

But as far as your question goes, I would prefer a kind woman over a sexy woman for sure.

Lionman95 · Answer

Kind for sure because for me the emotional bonding is way more important than the sexual parts because I´m generally not very sexual active and I couldn´t get along with a woman that has a high sex drive and is openly showing so.

Curmudgeon · Answer

Two latin phrases are necessary here:
1. Ceteris paribus (other things being the same), and
2. Prima facie (at first view)

Ceteris paribus, given two women of similar looks, intelligence, etc., yes, the kind one is MUCH better.

However, prima facie, kindness is not readily apparent. (Intelligence often is not either, but you get the idea).

One_Guy_ · Answer

Your question seems uncomplete.
Does it mean the sexy woman is not kind?
I would never take a whore, excuse my language, no matter how alluring she is, even for one night stand.
The same with ugly woman, the kindness is not a determining factor for me.
The perfect woman for quick sex - beautiful and interesting, with no STDs or mental issues.
The perfect woman to marry for me would be - smart, healthy, young and beautiful white virgin who knows her value, not a liar or spoiled in any other way.
I don't want to imply or offend anyone here, but kindness often goes together with stupidity, kindness is a good thing if it is directed toward good people only or animals.
Cheers

Reaper1985 · Answer

sexy women are better for hookups. kind women are better for relationships. since I don't engage in hookup culture rather have a women whos a blend. because she more likely has a personality I enjoy. but she can always switch up things to increase her sexiness a bit.

hypojoe · Answer

Some of the hottest chicks atittude and how they act and treat people makes them ugly in my opinion i dont care how hot you are or people think if your a piece of shit to people then you are shit

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I’d rather have 2 in 1 if I was a man. But if I had to choose I’d take a kind one, sexiness can fade away, kindness can stay.

Anonymous · Answer

All the guys saying kind are the simp virgin losers on this site that “pick me” virtue signal whenever they can.
Not a single one of these liars would go with a fat/ugly female with a heart of gold.

When they say “kind” they mean someone who is attractive but also kind.

Your poll is flawed because the two options are not mutually exclusive.

Panzer21 · Answer

I have to be physically attracted, thats basically non negotiable. Im definitely down to be with a 6-7 whos kind. Im not down to be with a 9-10 whos a bitch.

Кураж · Answer

The sexy woman. "Kind" is not a trait I look for in a partner, it's an arbitrary label.

NathanDavis · Answer

a handful of what? drama? I don't do childish drama... lol

Iron_Man · Answer

If there’s no attraction then it will be a turn off kissing her and that would never work so it has to be sexy obviously and the rest comes into play after

WhitneySnow · Answer

Regardless of gender, kind is always more important than sexy (though it’s nice when they’re both)

shyguy1886 · Answer

I voted the kind woman. The kind woman would win all day long for me. She would be sexy in my eyes anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

WOW, so many people are lying even in an online poll :D

slatyb · Answer

Happily I don't have to make that choice. There are plenty of sexy kind women.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

I'm not sure actually. I would miss both of them too much

roy_ricky09 · Answer

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FilmGuy93 · Answer

Why do these questions always try to juxtapose two things that aren't in opposition to each other?

Quigly · Answer

A good personality can make a person sexy. I have met women that were both sexy and kind.

RHK36 · Answer

Whichever I'm more compatible with, if there's not much chemistry with either then I'd rather be single.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Let me see what percentage of men end up lying on this post...

TenkRealist · Answer

Kind. Sex isn't rocket science.

achilljoeythor · Answer

It depends on HOW PRETTY or beautiful she is and how nice or mean she is. As long as she isn't a COMPLETE BITCH, totally heartless I might be willing to tolerate her. We ALL have biases, the sooner we realize and own, the better off people will be.

MagicCarpet1 · Answer

Neither, they are both fat and ugly. I prefer women with dignity and honor.

GatewayRealm · Answer

She’s gotta Be nice and Honest  I don’t want any Diseases if I Participate in any Extra curricular activities.

possumpi26 · Answer

Sexy. That's what I'd choose because I like kind women already as friends but if I was a guy I'd want a sexy woman who's smart shrewd and sassy. Kind of like Samantha from sex and the city.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Kind women are sexy also.

monkeynutts · Answer

No body wants to be squeezing mother Theresa's titties. You need em to be sexy, nasty.

Sam_25 · Answer

I go with kind women and make her sexy.  I don't chase garbage (sexy woman)

Shiningtempest · Answer

@dermalpunch I would choose a kind woman because I don't want to worry about a sexy woman having an affair behind my back.

jimmy2 · Answer

Becareful ladies this say the opposite of your thoughts

Stevefiveo · Answer

Personality matters for a relationship.

Freyke · Answer

True kindness can be a gem.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Kind who can be mean sometimes haha

Jamie05rhs · Answer

The kind woman, of course!

WhyMe247 · Answer

I’ll take the kind woman.

scooogy · Answer

To me, nice is sexy 😌

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Kind is the sexiest attribute

msc545 · Answer

The kind woman. The sexy woman will make trouble.

krin_m · Answer

Kindness is very sexy in my opinion!

Dat-Alpha-Lion · Answer

Kind, cuz looks only last for so long.

Anonymous · Answer

Kind women do have a sexy allure.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Kind woman

Jltakk · Answer

A kind woman every day of the week.

Headstrongcrazylover · Answer

Kind women for long term Se y for short term

Christian65 · Answer

Kind women are sexy

Anonymous · Answer

None, too much of a trouble

Anonymous · Answer

Kind.

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