Would you prefer a fun or sultry woman?

[Anonymous]

I’ve seen a lot of online dating advice that advises woman to be sultry by speaking more slowly and walking more slowly.

Some women though are naturally fun and playful though and this contradicts with the slow and sexy a lifestyle a sultry woman would embody.

Things being my question, would you prefer a fun/playful (maybe even lively or energetic) woman or a slow and sexy, sultry woman?

Fun and Playful

Slow and Sexy

[SteveSmith1985]

Oh my god... no. First, I would take the fun/playful lively energetic girl BY A LOT.

Personally, the slow sultry thing... I know enough women as people to know that nobody is actually like that. That shit's performative. It's women doing what you're contemplating: putting on an act in an effort to appeal to men's sexuality (in a vague non-overt way).

It gives me second hand embarrassment.

I would take almost any other girl, over the slow sultry bullshit.

Note: The fun, playful, lively and energetic girl is probably the girl I would pick out of a crowd regardless of who you put her up against.

That sounds like a girl I'd be attracted to.

I strongly suggest you abandon the whole notion that this might possibly be a good idea. It's a horrible idea.

🙂

[Summeroflove]

Just be normal if it’s too over the top it can make someone uncomfortable if they aren’t interested as well as come across as disingenuous. Just be you….

[Asker]

Of course. But what’s the preference in general?

[Summeroflove]

As for me I guess fun and playful. But all men are different

[Asker]

Yeah that makes sense. Me personally I’m more of a fun/playful woman but I think I overdo it sometimes because I can be seen as immature I think

[NicholasRedone]

Hell I'm sure it's fun inside and outside of the bedroom :) 😜😁

[Asker]

It is, when I do it 🥲

[NicholasRedone]

You mean on top lol front or back lol

[ohsheeT]

I prefer some one real. Someone that doesn't try to act like something she's not.

Now to answer your question
I like all of the above. Because there is a time and place for all of it abd when it's real it can become a beautiful moment And it can become a very intense hot moment, but it has to be real. Because when it's real you can feel it. Deep indide , then you become part of that moment. And when 2 become one that's when real things begin to happen that's when every thing changes to something special

But I prefer all of it and more because that's the same way I want her to feel me

[ChiTown33]

Sultry eh? So like Joely Richardson in the movie King Ralph? 🤣 or would this be fun and playfulness royal sort of way.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/KG5Z6Ya4UkI

[Asker]

LMAOO that’s sultry alright 🤣

[sawno]

My core drive is fun, I actively seek it out. So her being fun works way better on me than sultry.

[BadApple69]

The most important thing is to be yourself. Don’t try to be something you are not.

[NicholasRedone]

Fun and playful 🙃 😋 🎉 🥳 I'm energy and I like the energy in return 💗💗💗