What are your excuses to avoid having dinner with someone?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I usually say that my wife needs me or does not approve. There's this woman who got in her head that I owe her a dinner (she did help me with a spiky situation, but she's otherwise troubles all around) so I keep telling her the same excuse.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Go to the dinner. You got yourself into this situation, you should have seen this coming.

Either tell your wife or don't, but if you don't go on this dinner to humor her a little, you might have a crazy bitch out to get you or your wife now. Just try to eat like an asshole. Not much less attractive to woman than a man who eats like a slob.

[spartan55]

This is a solid plan. Also, dress like a bus stop hobo..

[Dazed0N0Confused]

1. I have an early day tomorrow.
2. I already made plans that day with (insert name here).
3. I have family in from out of town & I really would like to see them.
4. It's so last minute, I don't think I can get a babysitter.
5. My partner & I have a date planned already for that day, with the baby & all it's hard to have alone time & we need it.
6. Sorry, I have to work that night.

[TrueConfection]

Give her a gift certificate to a restaurant and a thank you card.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

That could work, but I'm not sure it would get her off my back. I'll try

[crossdressingrihno]

Agreed but if she continues to bother you it's best to just tell her you don't want to have dinner.

"Listen I really don't want to be rude but I have a wife and I really don't want to go to dinner. Please respect my decision and not ask again"
She will probably get offended but the point is nice and clear so if she asks again after that you can tell her off to your hearts content

[GatewayRealm]

Nah you can’t be just Going to dinner like that or making excuses.
Just make a deal with her tell her this if you blow me I’ll for sure go to dinner with you. Make a deal with her that You will only go out to dinner and stuff if she blows you every time she wants something.

[HighlyVolatile]

I've actually never done that before. I probably should but I've never done it. I always figured even if I don't want to go that maybe that makes it more interesting that I don't want to go.

[hellomellow7]

Well you could straight up tell her you don’t want to complicate things between you and her and just give her a gift card. Or ask if it’s okay if your wife joins you guys so she gets the idea your taken.

[On_cloud_wine]

bring your wife along, and tell this lady to bring a date. Make it a couples date. You don’t need to make excuses. you’re married and feel it’s inappropriate

[D_Bone_Steak]

When I've dealt with this I'd do lunch or dinner but I'd bring like 2 or 3 other women from the office. Hella glad I don't do office work anymore.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Grow a pair and tell her that you're not gonna have dinner with her.

You're better than me, because I would've told her to go feed her damn self.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't go in for making excuses. I'd just buy her a box of chocolates to say thank you instead.

[Blackcosmo]

I'l just say I'm not really looking to date right now.

[FunkyMonkee]

I'm having my period.
I'm in labour.
I don't think there's any buses that can take me to your house next door.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t make excuses if I don’t like her I’m not going out to dinner with her and I won’t make plans so I don’t have to break it. Unless she’s a friend

[Jltakk]

If I'm having one of my worse depression days I just simply don't want to socialize with anyone and would much rather just sleep the rest of the day off.

[TacosRAwesome]

If she keeps bugging you about it, it's harassment.

[Adronicus]

"I don't want to have dinner with you".
I'm not a deceptive person.

[TexasRed95]

I have never been offered dinner with someone. So I have no idea.

[Jamie05rhs]

Give her a gift card to her favorite restaurant. Say, "Enjoy this dinner on me.". Lol

[Blueeyes81]

I'm straight up with them so they leave me alone. People are persistent so rip that bandaid off.

[VV3ZZY]

I dont have money. If they want to pay for my dinner I will put up with their bs for a little lol

[Waldoe]

give her a gift certificate to McDonalds... there's your dinner...

[RandomGuy1030]

How about be honest and stop giving a shit if they like me.

[axe_can]

Be straight up honest. dont fake excuses

[England4eva]

you’re a wise man

[scott04sa22]

Girl: too busy playing on my Xbox

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I’m not hungry!

[james117111]

Interesting, just say you can't make it

[james117111]

They should get the drift

[OfDeath]

I have covid

[Wise4myage]

I have bad gas, lol.

[Creampiekarl420]

Hangover