So, I have a situation with my friends (girls), and I don't know how to feel about it or what to do.
I'm a 29yo male, and most of my friends are girls. I get along well with them. Yes, I do have friends who are men and no, I'm not gay or anything. I even have best friends who are ex-girlfriends of mine.
But, in the past few months I've been asked by several girls to have kids with them and live together. Now, I don't consider myself good looking or handsome. Although I've been told that I am. "I'm a prize" said a girl to me on the subway the other day.
But, I don't know how to feel right now. I trusted this friends of mine, they've seen me through thick and thin and now they ask me this, it's like... so, were we really friends or this was the plan all along?
I feel a couple of my friends being more like my wives than my friends now ever since they asked me to have kids. They are a little bit bossy and talk bad about every girl I start to date.
So, I don't know. At first I thought that it was cool for me to have girls asking me this, but now I don't feel so good. I love my friends but, I feel betrayed and I'm not so sure of ending up with any of them. What should I do? I feel like a trophey or "it's better to have him than nothing" sort of thing.
I hope you guys can help me out with this one. Anyway, thanks for your time and for reading. Stay safe, peace.
I'm a 29yo male, and most of my friends are girls. I get along well with them. Yes, I do have friends who are men and no, I'm not gay or anything. I even have best friends who are ex-girlfriends of mine.
But, in the past few months I've been asked by several girls to have kids with them and live together. Now, I don't consider myself good looking or handsome. Although I've been told that I am. "I'm a prize" said a girl to me on the subway the other day.
But, I don't know how to feel right now. I trusted this friends of mine, they've seen me through thick and thin and now they ask me this, it's like... so, were we really friends or this was the plan all along?
I feel a couple of my friends being more like my wives than my friends now ever since they asked me to have kids. They are a little bit bossy and talk bad about every girl I start to date.
So, I don't know. At first I thought that it was cool for me to have girls asking me this, but now I don't feel so good. I love my friends but, I feel betrayed and I'm not so sure of ending up with any of them. What should I do? I feel like a trophey or "it's better to have him than nothing" sort of thing.
I hope you guys can help me out with this one. Anyway, thanks for your time and for reading. Stay safe, peace.
