When a guy says there is no problem?

[Anonymous]

When the boyfriend of 5 months says "he isn't sure if he wants to do anything this weekend...but there is no problem with us"...what does that mean?

[BeerME]

I wouldn't worry about it. I can't count all the times I've said I didn't want to do something and a girl took it to mean the world was coming to an end. It's an experience that I'd imagine most guys are familiar with and my bet is that he just didn't want you to take it the wrong way.

[Voltaire]

Means he doesn't want to do anything with you, but also doesn't want you to misinterpret that and think he has an issue with the relationship.

[Anonymous]

It could mean any number of things. He could want some alone time. He could want some guy time. It doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong. Just see how things go after the weekend. If you're still talking and seeing each other then you're fine.

[Anonymous]

You are paranoid. Your boyfriend maybe just tired to even think whether he wants to go out or not. It happens. Relax!

[Anonymous]

I does not sound good at all, I think you should cut him loose.

[Dom163]

He just doesn't want you to be concerned but he probably just wants some time to himself

[serenamckinney]

He just doesn't know what he want's to do this weekend, ya'll hangout every weekend, maybe he misses the guys?

[Vasillilaw]

Maybe he has his period?

[Asker]

lol

[BeerME]

True, he may just be manstrating.

[Asker]

ha. Never heard that before. Its always the woman who has "issues".