How to stop having crushes?

[AdithyaR]

I'd like to prep myself such that I don't have crushes on people cause I don't want to deal with the hassle of it. How do I stop myself from developing crushes?

[serious]

How to stop?

Well there is no definite answer to that. However, if you are very logical, you know your sense of purpose in life and the fact that education and having a successful career is important then you need to train your mind accordingly and that way you may achieve control over it.

[AdithyaR]

Seems like decent way to go about it

[serious]

@AdithyaR

Yes it is and good luck.

[AdithyaR]

Thanks

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[ArtemisSilver]

Just ask them out in a lewd way immediately. They'll reject you and boom crush solved.

[AdithyaR]

I've got anxiety which makes it difficult to talk to strangers in the first place, that would never work 🤣

[ArtemisSilver]

Try drinking whisky first 👍

[AdithyaR]

I don't drink 😅

[ArtemisSilver]

The best time to start is today 😸

[AdithyaR]

I have tried, didn't like the taste

[ArtemisSilver]

Good medicine taste bad.

[AdithyaR]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[DizzyDesii]

Sorry but you’re going too. Its natural. You’re not as asexual as you think love lol. Just let it happen and hope for the best outcome

[AdithyaR]

But it's honestly not worth the pain anymore.

[Whatever2929292]

Just ignore the crushes

[AdithyaR]

Easier said than done.
I'd prefer not having the crush in the first place

[Whatever2929292]

I understand that but don't act on them. Is what I am saying if you don't want them. They are a normal part of life and many people are wanting to get married so we like people

[Whatever2929292]

But I get what you are saying. I do

[AdithyaR]

For me it's mainly cause I know crushes have no point in my life. I've accepted that it doesn't work out so I'd rather not deal with it.
I'll take your word and try to ignore it.

[Whatever2929292]

ok I kinda see waht you mean