Lost love.. lost interest?

[Anonymous]

I really need help.. I’ve been in a ldr for 2 years. Last night he told me he was done with distance, wasn’t sure if he wanted me in his life or not and didn’t know if he loved me or not anymore. I’ve done nothing to make him suddenly feel like this that I’m aware of.. and when I asked him what made him suddenly change, he didn’t know, he just wasn’t sure about me anymore.

I’m absolutely terrified of losing him. I love him so much and want to go see him, but I don’t think he’ll see me if I come. And he won’t come see me. I’m falling to pieces and I don’t know what to do, I thought I lost him once before and I can’t lose him again. What can I do to help him regain the love he did have for me?

[mayur1598]

You can't force anyone to stay with you...
If he already moved on then you should let him go... And try to do same for you too...
I know heart break is really bad... But I'm sure you are strong person and you will get over it...

[Pyrofox]

Just ask him straight up what he'd do if you dropped everything to visit him >.> And see if that is enough to get him to realize your very serious about the relationship. At this point any last words count.

[Asker]

That’s a really good idea, thank you!

[Anonymous]

Maybe he didn't love you at all?