Lost interest in a girl?

[Anonymous]

My friends with benefits ghosted this gurl he was crushing on (he seemed like he wanted a sexual short term fun or a booty call type of thing) so she stopped texting him. He thought she would chase him, text him but she didn't. He got mad and was very bitter. So bitter that I could see how annoyed he looked, how rude, cold and condescending he was towards her even though she was being polite to him.

He continued looking back at her though, like looking over at her, staring and still followed her on Instagram and kept her number., including making dummy accounts because she had 3 private dummy accounts with 0 posts, 1 or 0 followers/following viewing her stories or liking her pics. One dummy account even had his actual name but it was deleted the next day.. I know this because he I saw 2 accounts on his real account on IG

Anyway, she tried being civil with him but one day it was really cold and he said he's freezing. I guess she kinda cared for him so texted him to keep himself warm and to take care of himself. He didn't reply to her but after that, his entire demeanor changed.

He does not look bitter or angry and is now waving, greeting her and not being rude. Instead asks her how's everything going (something he was not interested in before when he was being bitter) and is actively talking to her in person

. Not texting her though and is sexting me and sleeping with me. Though I did see that he checks her out like crazy expecially when she wears revealing outfits. This means he's no longer interested in hooking up? Or has lost interested in her?

[WhitneySnow]

He still wants to get with her. This is how a good player catches their prey, especially someone he’s really interested in.

[Asker]

But doesn't that means he's lost interested? Before he was bitter now he's nice? That means he's no longer into her?

[WhitneySnow]

No. It’s his way of getting her to have sex with him.

I just realized I answered this question the last time you posted it.

[Asker]

But why is he so obsessed with having sex with her? He's already getting it with me and his girls?

Also fo you mean he doesn't like her then?

[WhitneySnow]

Cause she’s the one that got away. Players hate letting any girl get away.

I don’t think he likes her likes her. I think it’s just sexual and he’ll lose interest if he ever gets sexual with her.

[WhitneySnow]

It sounds like you like him though. To be so worried about her.

[Asker]

But I remember when we were sitting near each other and he was writing and eating, she came and spoke and the moment he heard her voice, he turned around quickly, stared at her, looked away then looked back at her again.
Why would he do this? He's also began asking her how's things, updates on what she's doing etc

[Asker]

He slso told her he's going to meet a friend for coffee.

[WhitneySnow]

He could like her for real, but more likely he’s faking it to get her to go with him

[Asker]

But he doesn't text her nor he wants to meet her then how can even do this?

[DavidRaul]

You are really spamming with the same question. @WhitneySnow will suggest the same what i suggested. So stop spamming

[Asker]

@DavidRaul let her answer please at least she's clear about her views

[DavidRaul]

You will get the same answers. Good luck

[Asker]

@DavidRaul I just want to know how can he sleep with her when he doesn't see her

[WhitneySnow]

He’s being subtle. Not making the first move. Tryna lure her in. And making it seem like he really likes her. It’s a common player move. A lot of girls fall for the fantasy that a hot player likes them and only them.

[WhitneySnow]

He has not lost interest in her. Just the opposite.

[DavidRaul]

Thats what i was trying to tell you in first place in a 2 day long discussion, just like @WhitneySnow wrote

[Asker]

But before he was being mad, rude abd borderline passive aggressive. She texted him to take care and keep himself warm then asked if he needed help when he was carrying too many things. Only then his attitude changed.

Do you think this is a ploy and the fact he told her going for coffee with a friend, hinting to her to get her on a date again? His first date with her was over coffee

[Asker]

But before he was being mad, rude abd borderline passive aggressive. She texted him to take care and keep himself warm then asked if he needed help when he was carrying too many things. Only then his attitude changed.

Do you think this is a ploy and the fact he told her going for coffee with a friend, hinting to her to get her on a date again? His first date with her was coffee

[WhitneySnow]

Yes. I do think that.

[Asker]

Think what?

[WhitneySnow]

What your last paragraph said

[Asker]

But he spends weekends withel other girls? Then how is he into her?

[WhitneySnow]

Nvm… you’re just not getting it.

[Asker]

Please explain. I told u he spends weekends with girls so how can he want her?

[WhitneySnow]

He wants her because she’s the one that got away. He wants every halfway hot looking girl (including you) but he really wants her cause she’s a challenge.

[Asker]

So in the end, she's the one he actually wants and is sleeping with others because he cannot get his srxual needs fulfilled from her?
I say this because when she first talked with him, he looked her up and down and then quickly hid behind a printer (hid his lower body behind the printer cos he got hard)

[Asker]

Also after their date, he had held her rather tightly expecting a kiss

[WhitneySnow]

I guess. Maybe. How do you know all this?

[Asker]

Cos we all study at same uni.
But you really think ye hasn't lost interest in her?

[WhitneySnow]

Really

[Asker]

What do you mean by reall

[Asker]

@whitneysnow

[WhitneySnow]

It means I really think he hasn’t lost interest in her

[Asker]

But then why he spends weekends with me or other women?

[Asker]

Hello?