My boyfriend said his ex had 3 abortions?

[Anonymous]

How sbould i react
He said she did it because she couldnt have kids, she was on drugs all the time she is a drug addict
How to react? im confused

[DaveJord]

Why should it matter to you what your boyfriends ex did? If she was drug abuser she probably did a society a favor by not bringing kids into this world, statistically speaking they would probably be abused and grow to have drug or mental health issues, and live on wealth fare for the rest of their adult life... and some how that would make us as society better some how. I mean you outlaw abortions so what's your plan for all these children that will be brought into the world and be abused and neglected?

[GreatnessBack]

Was he also a drug addict?
Were they his abortions, as in she aborted his children?
Is he hurt by it?

The biggest question is why is he telling you this?

Other than that, I don't see why you should concern yourself about this.

[Asker]

We were talking that both of us dont like kids
And he said that he has 1 daughter with her and could have 4 more
But he didn't like kids and if he could he wouldn't even have a daughter he has now but she was tbeir first "accident" so she ga e birth to her when she was still young and clean
Yes all were his "kids"

[nightdrot]

This is pretty horrifying. I feel so sorry for that poor little girl.

If this guy is your idea of a "great" man, you are not likely to have a very happy life. Sorry, but this is vile.

[Asker]

@nightdrot why? its not his fault

[nightdrot]

His child is not his fault? How does THAT work?

[Asker]

@nightdrot if they wanted abortion they got abortion
Whats the problem

[nightdrot]

The problem: If you don't want children, keep your pants on!! Abortion is immoral and disliking your child is abominable. That little person did nothing - AT ALL - to earn her father's disdain.

[LazerBean]

I would not date a guy who associates with women like that.

[Asker]

Why? he is great man

[Avicenna]

Well, that doesn't have anything to do with you or your relationship with him. It's not even if clear if it happened while he was with her.

[Asker]

Yes it was his

[Avicenna]

OK, that's bad, but it happened before you two were together. What matters is what he does or doesn't do know.

[Guy13]

Nasty… Keep legs closed. There’s no excuse for that.

[Guy13]

I’m guessing he does not have the balls to ask you if you will abort or have baby when he gets you pregnant?

[Asker]

I won't get pregnant... i don t want kids
He also doesn't want them
She was his wife... what you mean keep legs clsed wtf

[Whatever2929292]

Glad he is with you now

[Agape93]

Why react at all? It's none of your business

[Anonymous]

leave him