Why are there suddenly more narcissists than ever?

[Liliesxoxo]

Several women have already been complaining about being victims of future fakers aka vampire bfs (that means they act similar to a birth control pill, draining a girl's fertile years). They made the woman move in with them and give them hopes of marriage and kids in the future but it's all a lie. That's really narcissistic behavior.

I've just read that one of the main characteristics of a narcissist is lying and future faking. A narcissistic gives you high hopes, only to never follow through and they never had a plan.

Suddenly, all those narcissists are on the rise. Why? Why are they multiplying all of the sudden?

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Those narcissists go under the title of ''boyfriend'' but that's not a true boyfriend that actually wants a future, it's more like a friends with benefits (friends with benefit). Since he doesn't have the balls to be honest, he searches for women looking for relationship and commitment and lies his way to get sex like a sick narcissist.

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Who is creating them? They're on the rise like never before. It isn't just happening here but also in a couple countries in South America. Even certain latina women are complaining about that too.

[hahahmm]

Because modern western society has mocked and belittled many traditional values. Traditional values included the belief that the individual's feelings weren't the most important thing and that we have responsibilities to our country/society, city, neighborhood, family and so on. When attention whoring & mocking traditional values is celebrated of course you will see more & more self centered behaviors. This isn't just about men... it's men and women who do it.

Also the women you're talking about wouldn't be having as much of a problem if they embraced traditional values... instead they want to pick & choose what they get. Like they want to be non traditional yet expect a man to be loyal, honorable and all the other old fashioned stuff WHEN it benefits her. But that's not possible unless the guy is really dumb and willing to give everything for nothing. Yeah, there's guys who are that dumb but they're already taken & at the end of the day, they're really just a hollow/shadow of what men used to be.

So.. if a woman raises her standards AND her behavior/character she might find a guy who has similar standards and reasons.

[hahahmm]

Check out my mytakes too...

[Liliesxoxo]

I just find it incredible that while more men are actually looking out for their own interest, keeping their gates for commitment very locked (keeping her forever as his childless girlfriend to have fun with) and not willing to take risk anymore... the women are actually doing the opposite.
The woman aren't looking out for their own interest by giving it everything for free for just a boyfriend and settling for an ''I love you, one day in the future we'll have kids'' instead of keeping their gates for sex well locked too.

[Liliesxoxo]

The men are happy in their comfort zone, unwilling to take risks while the women take all the risks of giving it all to a boyfriend... getting all her main fertile years drained. More women should be looking out for what suits them more, not for what's against them.

[hahahmm]

But see... society & the legal system holds men 100% responsible for our choices. Women can always blame men for their mistakes & the judges, cops politicians tend to say, "oh, poor baby. Let's punish this evil man." Or the system takes 60%+ of everything the man worked hard for even tho the wife cheated & chose to leave him. Guys have done the math and know it's not worth taking a woman seriously unless she takes herself very seriously (self-respect).

[Liliesxoxo]

Which goes back to my previous point, men are doing the math, taking their gatekeeping roles more serious while women aren't being selective nor careful... they really think they're equal to men and that they can date around and live for years without commiment, not knowing isn't not working in favor of them and it's not worth it. They are risking getting their years drained out and having their market value reduce and yet fail to see that.

[normalice]

Right wing infotainment encourages people to imagine they suffer from rich people's problems and so they should be complete sociopaths when it comes to preventing those problems from effecting rich people. It is a few steps after that that narcissism is strongly enforced.

[TrueConfection]

It seems to be on the rise, but what is happening is more and more women agree to live with their boyfriend before marriage. In fact, it's now encouraged and so twisted that men and women are deemed foolish NOT to live together for a specified amount of time before taking their vows. As one man put it, "Why buy the cow when I get the milk for free?"

[Liliesxoxo]

Those women are naive and don't realize dating and living together for years, only to end up in a break-up later on isn't in their favor. Then they have to start all over again with a new man and by then have limited time.

[TrueConfection]

Exactly

[hahahmm]

@Liliesxoxo But the funny thing is that if I or another man says what you just said to a woman on G@G we get called names and told we're "toxic" and to shut up so...

[Vesuvius87]

More weak people are getting praised for denegerative behaviors and all this ''the more women, the more of a man you are'' competition like no tomorrow. It's very bad.

[spartan55]

Wow, I think you set a record for misused pop psychology terms in one post.

[Liliesxoxo]

If you check online the traits of a male narcissists that's what it says. Lying to a woman about marriage and kids to give her hopes but purposely keeping her as a forever girlfriend (future faking) is narcissism.

[spartan55]

Having a trait of a narcissist does not make a person a narcissist. The future faking thing is completely he said she said. So really it's not as black and white as you are proclaiming it to be here.

[Liliesxoxo]

Well but he still shares 50% blame for not dumping the woman and letting her go so she can meet someone that will give her marriage and kids. Instead of keeping her as a girlfriend for more time and having sex, he had the option to dump her. He's not innocent on this.

[FilmGuy93]

I blame it on social media.

[Liliesxoxo]

The thing is they don't shamed nor punished for it. If I see a future faker, I plan on publically exposing him on FB and warning my female friends and more girls about him.

[FilmGuy93]

Shit heads gon' shit head.

[exitseven]

It is social media that is the culprit.