Do you think a boy is a virgin after he said he wasn't and then a year later he said I was his first ?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend said he was not a virgin, But after a year, he told me that he was a virgin? I was like so confused about it, So do you think he is honest?

[PrettyPriya]

It doesn't sound like he is being honest. However, he may be telling the truth. There isn't much details or context to know for sure. It may be a case of him being embarrassed that he was a virgin and that is why he told you he wasn't at first.

Once he realized (after a year) that you were not the type of person that would be upset with this, he confessed he was indeed a virgin. I don't know why someone would be embarrassed about it, but people often are.

The other side of this is he may be straight lying to you. He may have said that so that you would be his "first". Again, there is a lot more context needed to really understand why he would say this or why he would possibly lie. Maybe provide some more relevant details in the form of a question update. Use the update box and that way we can better give an opinion.

[jhl_x]

Being a virgin is an embarrassment for some guys, so lying about it at first seems like a good option. TBH, if I was in his position, that's what I'd do.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Yes for sure, deep down there's always a small shame of being a virgin, mostly for males because its seen more negative towards men

[Iron_Man]

Get him to swear make an oath

[Anonymous]

I say he's telling the truth, but who knows?

[Guy13]

Does not make sense