I've been with this girl for around 4 months. It's going all nice and we both like each other. But we don't have any common interests. She is more into politics and economics as she's from a commerce background. While I'm more into tech and science stuff. So sometimes we can't find anything to talk about and it goes quiet between us. We've got busy with our works too so we don't get much time to talk too now but it hasn't been a problem yet. But I'm wondering if it will work for us or not. I've realised that we're very different and but still spending time together feels great. Any suggestions?
Is it going to work or not?
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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It could work, just find a new and neutral topic/activity that the both of you can enjoy. My ex and I were also opposites, he was a big gamer guy and into anime while I’m more of an outdoorsy sports loving person. I started watching anime to connect with me, and he started taking workout classes to connect with me.
Then we both combined our two interests to make the best of both worlds (him being geeky and me being super active) - we then started going out for some laser tag at least once a month and we bonded over that.
If you’re doubting the relationship this early on, just break up. If you’re asking strangers on the internet what you should do, then the answer should be obvious.
Do you actually need to talk? Sometimes it is enough to be there for each other. It's normal for aman to not have anything in common with women. They always fake interest in what men like to get close. Your lack of interest in her is a choice. You could ask about how she view the ongoing crisis in the world economy. And you can talk for ages.
It's not going to work. You can have completely different professions and still click when the mutual romantic interest is there. There's so much more to a person than just their profession.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Yes. Unless you start fighting over trivial matters. Or one of you starts to shove politics to the other.
