Have you ever face betrayed from the person you believe & loved a lot?

[Anonymous]

Does this effect your life? Be honest.

[Anonymous]

My ex. She was f*cking a guy behind my back while I was at work, even had our 4 year old kid at his house while she was doing it. I caught her sexting him and of course she gave me the old he's just a friend line. Eventually after I got suspicious and just left, caught her in a carpark one morning giving her car a jump. Still insisted they were friends then got a call from her a week later just before Christmas saying I had to get tested for an std she had. I told her a week after Christmas that I wasn't coming back, our son was in the room watching YouTube on her phone and when her phone ran out of power he got upset and threw her phone and she took in and kicked the crap out of our son punching and beating him to the ground. I pulled her off him and as I was comforting him she went for him again. I had to call social services in and she had to live with her parents for a year and couldn't be left alone with our child without supervision.

She promised me she wouldn't have that dirtbag around our son again but lied. At a social services meeting meant to shut the case down I threw our a whole pile of evidence on this other guy who had passed police checks based on what exs had said, the guy is a peado though unconvicted. Best social services could do was recommend I get 3/4 days custody and that the dirtbag not be left alone with my son to the court. Its all still ongoing and my ex has tried to get non-molestation, prohibited steps orders and restraining orders on me by making false allegations against me such as stalking, bullying, harrassment, verbal sbuse, financial abuse even tried to black mail me with threats of a false allegations of rape but none of it went anywhere because I'd been advised by a male domestic abuse charity before hand to record every conversation, every text message, body cam and a dash cam and I was able to show her accusations as false and show the abuse she gives me.

I'm still fighting to get this peado away from my kid. He works in a school, he lives across from a school, he has a history of hanging around a school picking up underage kids and I've just heard he's gotten a written warning recently for making creepy comments to female teachers and students.

[Gent207]

Yes and now 7 years later they stand as a paradigm of true intimacy... but it wasn't real not for her at least

[badempress]

Yes and yes but c’ est la vie. I took it as a lesson and moved on

[Avicenna]

That would be devastating for anyone

[NeffexSelfMade]

of course