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I personally believe that it's the man's fault when the woman in the relationship cheats. What are your thoughts? (Page 3)
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What sort of reverse chauvinism is this?
I cheat because I'm a shitty person.
You mean when you cheat. Gotcha.
Just as long as the inverse is true
Feminism has gone too far in your case.
That‘s not feminism
@-Asca- That's modern feminism.
Absolutely not, that‘s just misandry
@-Asca- Which is one of main traits od moeern feminism.
Leaving maybe, cheating no.
So is the woman’s fault when the man cheats? I
I don't believe you.
OMG I couldn't disagree more...
Why does she need such support?
blaming others is something hitler would do
Total Bull Sh! t.
hahahahaha stop lol
fault of all involved.
Damn straight for sure that
That works both ways.
When cheating happens, it's the fault of both
Lol... uh no its the fault of the person who cheats... you are not responsible for the actions of others
@Subarugirl Firmly disagree. When a relationship is successful, it's the result of boyh peoples actions; same when it fails.
People cheat because they've been given reason to cheat. They don't do it because their SO makes them happy
You are not responsible for actions of another person. Any intelligent person can see how their action or inaction can effect another person, but it doesn't make you responsible for what they chose to do. If a person is unhappy they can try and fix things or they can leave, there is no valid reason to cheat... there are plenty of excuses that you could try and come up with, but no valid reason.
Of course the success of failure of a relationship is on both people as there are equals in that relationship, how ever it never anyone else's fault when a person choses to violate their partners consent by cheating.
I'd suggest you open your mind and study human behaviour to better understand what you're talking about.
Individuality is responsible for your own actions and judgments.
A relationship is responsible for each other. If you think that's unreasonable, you're not committed
So if my husband decided to kill someone, you think that I should be held partially responsible?
Individuality is important in a relationship, even if you are married you are still individuals even though you are partners. It is important to understand how what you do and do not do affects your partner, but you are not responsible for their actions... That type of mentality shift the responsibly of the actions you decide to make, by giving yourself permission to blame them for what you decided to do.
You made me angry, so its your fault that I hit you.
You didn't want to have sex, so it's your fault that I cheated on you.
You think you've played no role in shaping his views? His thoughts?
You've had no influence on his mentality?
If he was successful, sure you supported it.
Your logic is flawed
Of course I have... but that still doesn't mean that I am responsible for his actions. If your girlfriend decided to kill someone or rob a bank do you think that you should be partially responsible for their actions.
As an adult, it is your job to take responsibility for your action and try and blame someone else for what you decided to do. You don't get to blame your partner for deciding to punch them in the face... any more then you get to blame your partner for choosing to cheat.
You can rationize numerous ways, but it's all the same thing.
You play a role in influencing you SO actions and judgements both good and not so good.
People don't cheat because they're happy. They cheat because they're unhappy. BOTH people in a relationship are responsible for that. To believe otherwise is absurd. You contradict yourself. It's all about accepting responsibility for your actions and judgments. In a relationship, it's equal parts responsibility.
People cheat because they chose to cheat… and they can try and justify that by making tons of excuses. If you’re unhappy there are tons of things that you can do about it other than choosing to lie and cheat. You can be partially at fault for not meeting your partners needs but but it’s not your fault if they cheat, that their own fault for fixing things or ending the relationship. You can’t just blame your partner for cheating on them anymore than you can blame your partner for abusing them…. It doesn’t work that way. People of integrity take responsibility for their actions and choices, they don’t try and shift the blame for what they chose to do.
I think you're just looking for a debate on a topic that you've spent 0 time studying.
I suggest you educate yourself
Actually I’ve spent years on the topic and 3 years in marriage counseling, so yes I do understand, and I understand where you are coming from, how ever from your point of view it makes infidelity justifiable by blaming your significant other.
No... no you don't.
Beung in a failed marriage and saying you understand it is like saying you've been in a car accident and can reconstruct the scene.
You can't.
People devote their lives to studying what the biased parties involved can't see. People pay a lot of money for this knowledge.
You have not.
And you have?
Find one relationship counselor or therapist that agreed that the person who has been cheated on is partially responsible?
That’s like saying a rape victim is partially responsible for being raped…
Lol... stop. you're embarrassing yourself.
No I’m not, you can’t apply the logic you’re using in any other situation, which means it’s bad logic
@Subarugirl his logic is pretty twisted, imagine trying to blame other people for your own actions!
@Juxtapose that's exactly what he's trying to do, justify infidelity by trying to twist things into making his partner responsible for his choice to cheat...
Ah shit here we go again..
This has to be a troll
Maybe because you are a cheater yourself
My opinion it is both fault...
I think you are delusional
Typical female lack of responsibility
Troll
Sometimes