How do I ask him if their is more wrong without upsetting him?

[lovingmckenzie]

So my boyfriend had told me how important it is for him to have meals , which I have tried to make each one with him expect for these last two days and also having plans to do things which we haven’t for two days now. I try to be with him every day that I can but I feel like their is more wrong but I don’t know how to get him to talk about it.

[dynamicyandere]

Let him know that you’re coming from a place of genuine care and concern. Make sure that he feels your sincerity when you’re asking and that you’re coming from a place where you want to help because he matters to you. If he can sense that sincerity and love, you’ll be creating a safe space for him to share more if he feels comfortable enough to open up.

[lovingmckenzie]

How do you feel I should approach it. I also know he only gets every other week with his son , so I don’t want to interrupt that but when you are posting on Facebook but can’t reply to me for 4-5 hours at a time it’s very confusing

[dynamicyandere]

Perhaps when he’s with his son, he really just blocks out everything else so that he has more of a single-minded focus to give to his son. And, if he’s done spending time with his son and still not replying quickly, perhaps he’s just having some “me time” to relax and clear his mind.

I don’t think you should interrupt his schedule, but when it’s time for you two to spend some time together, you can use that time to address your concerns and show him your care. That’s quality time—time that is spent that helps draw two people closer to each other.

Hopefully he will open up, but don’t get upset if he doesn’t right away. Many men find it difficult to open up to other people about things they’re going through, whether that be confiding in men or women. But, if you really exude genuine care and sincerity, that’ll help him let his guard down. Genuine love and altruism is disarming, in a good way. Make sure he can feel that from you.

[lovingmckenzie]

Thank you , I was thinking the same thing to not bother him while with his son. So though I texted him a few times and now he is with his son and haven’t replied I should just wait until he finds time to reply? right.

[lovingmckenzie]

I like him but don’t want to seem like a bother. So maybe I should let him have his last two days with his son then when he gets time let him come to me?

[dynamicyandere]

You’re welcome. ☺️ Yeah, that sounds like a good approach. Just give him some space while he’s with his son, show him you’re supportive of him wanting to be there for his son, and let him come to you and you can go from there. ☺️

[lovingmckenzie]

I appreciate it thank you so much.

[dynamicyandere]

You’re very welcome. I wish you the best. 😊

[spartan55]

If he wants to talk about it, he will. I strongly advise against asking him if anything else is wrong. We HATE that shit.