If you had cancer, would you rather your s/o stay or tell them to find someone else they can be happy with?

This doesn't have to do with me for clarification
I'd rather them stay
I'd rather them leave and find someone else since I may or may not pass away
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If you had cancer, would you rather your s/o stay or tell them to find someone else they can be happy with?
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