How not to be insecure when your girlfriend is beautiful?

[Anonymous]

She's very beautiful and a lot of guys try to hit on her. I'm not bad looking, but is very insecure and jealous about this.

She's active, outgoing and she loves to show off and talk with lot of people. Next month she's going to another state with her friends for 4 days (volunteering for a music festival) and I'm sure a lot of guys will ask her number. Also all her friends except us are in casual relationship.

I always feel this tension when she go somewhere or wear sexy dress or kind of..

How do you manage this when your partner is beautiful?

[Phoenix98]

Take comfort in knowing that your the one she’s with. She chose you not the guys who are looking from afar in envy.

And learn to be more secure and confident in yourself. And do your best within your means and what’s reasonable to make her happy and be the best boyfriend you can be.

[Asker]

Thank you buddy. That was helpful

[Phoenix98]

No problem.

[mobiusforniner]

You love by letting go. You see, the tighter you hold on to sand, it slips through your fingers. But loosen your grip, it stays. Show your girlfriend you're confident by making her FEEL GOOD about your relationship. Jealousy and insecurity seldom make a relationship better.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[rachel776]

when i'm with a guy they know whether we're boyfriend/girlfriend and i'm not going to hook up or we're just casual and i can if i want

[Dinklex3]

By having trust in your partner.

Trust that she loves, cares, and is loyal to you. 🙂

[Asker]

Thank you

[hyperben]

your insecurity/jealousy will drive a wedge between you, just go about it as business as usual, treat her right but dont kiss her ass and call it ice cream just because she is pretty, be cool, there is a reason she wanted to go out with you and it ain't because of her own looks!

[Randalama]

She sounds great too me. I don't understand what all the controversy's about. Have you considered the possibility that you might be acting like a douchebag?

[Asker]

Yes I know. That's why I'm asking for help to get rid of my conservative thinking

[Randalama]

No problem with your thinking. A steady supply of prophylactic's is required. Otherwise you're gonna catch the herp.

[jshm2]

Put a ring on her then, dumbass. But if you're too poor or insecure, then she's in the right to move on.

She's only your girlfriend, not your wife.

[ChrisBlue2120]

You're fucked.

I know, I had hot girlfriends, but she definitely didn't go to music festivals with her single girlfriends.

[SandyBeaches]

I was about to give you a thoughtful answer, then I saw that you didn't have the balls to delete the UK ass-wipe that insulted you.

[Asker]

Why should I reply to such mfs. I just ignored him

[SandyBeaches]

Good for you.

[driven159]

You are ether insecure or not doesn't have anything to do with looks being jealous is a sign of immaturity