My girlfriend is very insecure about her appearance.

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is very skinny and almost flat chested. No matter what she does , she does not gain weight. She has no medical condition, its just the way she is made.

She is very insecure about herself and often feels inferior to other big,curvy,fuller girls. She has low self esteem and low confidence.

May times she says she is not feminine enough, she doesn't deserve me, she doesn't deserve guys and relationship.

I feel very sad about her and it hurts me. She is the best girl I have ever been with. She has a really very good heart, caring attitude. I feel really good around her in her company.

How to make her realize that she is the best lady. She is no less to any girl. She deserves every happiness. I like her and want to make her happy, always.

[Betwyn]

Pay extra attention to the parts of her body she is most anxious about...

her hips.. her breasts..

If she feels like what she has.. what she thought, was a "lack", really gets you going...

honestly, it will mean more then any words you can tell her.

People tell me stuff all the time.. but unless its stuff I agree/believe, it's often hard to believe...

But when a guy really enjoys the parts of me, that I'm insecure about...

That.. THAT... is what makes me feel sexy, wanted and confident.

[Betwyn]

TY for BA :)

[Stacyzee]

Keep complimenting her.

Let her know she has a model type of body.

When you have sex with her , kiss her all over almost has if you are worshipping her body.

Keep doing these things and it will make her feel better.

I'm not sure, if it will take anyway the feelings she has towards herself because that is something she has to get over has a person (and no amount of complimenting will change that).

But on your part, it sure will help.

[Prof_Don]

Keep on reassuring her by being the good boyfriend that you are. Follow what Bet said on the best answer to boost her confidence.

It seems like almost every female has some consistent insecurity about her; females are so combative and put pressure on each other!

[Bloogoo]

Hey dude- just tell her precisely what you have said here.

She's a great girl. She means the world to you... just let that puppy know that all that other stuff is 100% irrelevant... period.

[ionhide]

tell her that you have fallen for her for what she is and that's what you look for in a girl you want to be with. and prove it by making her special your way

[Anonymous]

Ask her to check out this

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=TI_UO387y3M

[Anonymous]

She just need your constant sincere compliments.

[Prof_Don]

I think her insecurity is deeper than that