Because of he is very close friend so other people, relatives see me and judge me and also make fun of me. And I try a lot but it just like girls are don’t give me a chance. I really feel insecure every where I go. Please someone help me on this. I don’t know what to do?
If you are being judged by friends on the base of a girlfriend, then those people are not real friends. Distance yourself from them because they don't bring you anything positive. They are toxic and you are paying the price for that.
You may not have a girlfriend but you probably have other assets that they don't have. They seem to be like very superficial people.
Now, being beautiful and hot does not mean that she has character, intellect and personality. She may have a few physical advantages but that is not enough to make her a good girlfriend. Actually, it is quite the contrary. What do you think will happen once her heat has dissipated and the wrinkles have taken over the pristine skin?
Right, she will be the kind of person that will want to try to keep looking young as long as possible and be willing to spend tens of thousands to get a few liftings. She will not be able to stop ageing but being a superficial person will only make her a loser.
Get away from those toxic friends and don't compare yourself to others. You will always find superficial imperfections and that will only make you unhappy.
What are you asking us to answer? What to do about what? Just because your friend has a girlfriend is no reason to be upset. You should be happy for him. That is great that he found someone.
It also should have no bearing on your life whatsoever. What happens with other people's lives are their business and you should not compare your situation to others. Things happen to people at different times. This is no different in relationships.
All you can do is be the best version of yourself and work on anything that you might think is a character flaw. You also need to get out there and meet people. A good way is looking in your local area and seeing what activity groups and clubs there are around.
That is a good way to meet people that share a similar interest. Much easier to strike up a conversation and have something in common. Only you can fix the situation and need to be proactive about it. Watching your friends find relationships and then feeling sorry for your own situation won't fix anything.
that's what happens when you compare yourself to others. stop doing that and just focus on yourself and utilize others for networking and inspiration.
The flip side of this is your friend is dealign with a moody, bitch$, pmsing female. He gets into arguments he barely understands.
It isn't all roses...
Stop being so hard and unrealistic. We do not measure ourselves by beauty, women, and stuff. And most importantly, we do not covet our friends' successes.
Be sure you are not emoting that jealous woman energy. If he doesn't feel it she sure will.
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