I'm so lonely and tired of having no girlfriend. Can someone please offer me some hope or advice?

[Anonymous]

This isn't a troll. I seriously feel like ending my life. I'm so lonely and tired of having no girlfriend. Seeing so many happy couples makes me wish I could just disappear. I feel like no one will ever want to be my girlfriend. Has anyone felt like this?

[zombiefood]

Go to a hospital. If you're serious about considering suicide right now get your stupid ass to a hospital, don't waste your time here.

This isn't a matter of joke or play. You don't go around trying to get someone to cheer you up when you're considering suicide because it's gone beyond just not being happy. Trust me, I know, for several reasons.

When you're at the point of seriously, honestly considering suicide a couple of nice words from strangers who don't know you and are just giving general compliments and don't can't say anything really true about you with any accuracy isn't going to bring you back.

If your'e really serious get your ass off the computer, out of the house and to the nearest hospital, check yourself into the emergency room and see what comes of it. That's all you can do if it's that serious, they will help. if you're just really depressed and don't want to get out of bed, sleeping is a great escape then find a therapist, see them today and maybe consider medication.

But don't call suicide unless you're 100% serious because it's more than just a word, more than just a "oh boo hoo I'm so sad I want to kill myself, it's so much easier". And it's not a joke or something you should be exaggerating.

If you really are serious,l ike I said, just go to a hospital, even if you have to walk. If it were really that bad and you really wanted to live, you'd do it. Otherwise go to a therapist.

Your life shouldn't depend on some one else- that's unhealthy and not okay- you need to get help. If you're thinking of ending your life because you don't have a girlfriend you have a problem, you need help. Yes we, as humans, seek each others' company but with family and friends, and with as young as you are you shouldn't be having thoughts of killing yourself because you don't have a girlfriend.

Get help. Like you said, your serious, go to a hospital, get help.

[weekenderx]

the way that you are ripping up this guy, certainly had to make him feel like going ahead and doing it. He probably has girls talk like this to him all the time, and therefore has no self confidence because how he's treated by women. You need to check yourself

[Anon-]

You are a really a terrible person for picking on a suicidal guy. I'm suicidal and lonely and genuinely think women are nice until you show how inconsiderate a person can be. Stop, and also you don't get suicide help at a hospital. Cunt

[EVO223]

I read this comment and it is very clear that you have no idea what it is like to be completely alone and have nobody. Not only are you blindingly ignorant to that, you're also blindingly ignorant to the fact that you could've made this dude kill himself. have you no fucking shame? have you no care for the fact that people are lonely and want to end their lives because of it? if anyone needs to go to a MENTAL hospital, its you.

[AnonCloud]

@Anon- Hey. Hope you're still ok.

[die11]

Shut your mouth lady. Women have way more access to sex then men across all demographics. You live in a fantasy world

[thatgirljess]

I'm pretty tired myself of seeing other happy couples too. I wish I had a boyfriemd too butthat doesn't make me want to end my life.

I think you should just relax and be yourself find a girl who's sweet or whatever and make your move. If she rejects you its okay. We all get rejected in life by people but that just means move on to another girl. I bet there's a girl out there waiting for you.

[annonymousalways]

there is no such thing called girl waiting for you. if you go tell a girl I am looking for a life partner or a girl friend, if will be with you always and bla bla. Girls do understand that. Talk to them and then ignore them, show your wilder side and say you are not reliable person, show them you have plenty of girls around you. you will see all of sudden change in your life. girls do not appreciate nice people as there boy friend, they just appreciate them as useless friends. Stop thinking about girls first. Once you do find girl friend, show your nicer side and affection but never become a nice guy ever, she will leave you.

[annonymousalways]

* correction: "i will be with you always and bla bla. Girls do not understand that"

[Anon-]

@annonymousalways true, girls usually love getting manipulated, it's why I don't like getting in relationships. Because I can't live with myself after manipulating a girl.

[Quantum1101]

@annonymousalways Your opinion doesn’t include every woman out there. This is the worst advice I have ever seen. What are you 13 years old? Please educate yourself and become a better person. I feel bad for you.

[BabyGirl2798]

Hey there, I'm sorry you feel so lonely, would you like to talk about this privately? This seems very concerning and I would like to help you as much I can.

[Hammadfarooq351]

Hey there can I b a part of your life I m also very alone I just need someone who loves me whom I love her I need someone with a pure heart

[BabyGirl2798]

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[Nludolf]

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[Nludolf]

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[chetansingh]

@Hammadfarooq351 hii

[Muhammad2676]

Why you feel lonely

[BCRanger10]

Before I say anything else, I'll say this: if you are serious about this, GET...HELP!

If you think having a girlfriend is going to make all your problems go away, you're wrong. You are still going to have pay bills, mow the lawn, go to work, etc. This kind of thinking will actually scare a girl off. Why? Because then your life will be in her hands. Just think about that for a bit. Something else to think about is just because you love someone doesn't mean they love you back. What if you got a girlfriend and she treated you like crap? This is where having love for yourself comes in handy. This is something you need to work on before you start looking for love from a woman.

Also consider this: just because you are seeing couples at the mall, restaraunts, plaza, etc. doesn't mean they're all happy.

Yes, I have felt lonely and unwanted before. I'd be lying if I said no. Sometimes I still do, but never to the extent that I would consider killing myself. I have other things to live for. I have goals in life. I have my faith, my friends, my family, and a sense of purpose. These are the things you need to think about. Count your blessings. Yes, this may be a big void that you want filled, but surely you have other things and people in your life.

[freakyzeaky]

All I know is that when I was with my ex-girlfriend, even though we weren't the most compatible, I had the happiest moments of my life. I had the most genuine smile, I felt desirable, I could share myself with her. The sex wasn't the most adventurous (I was way kinkier than her), but it was the connection that I wanted so much. She was a sweet woman and I cared for her deeply. I appreciated her and sometimes I still yearn for her company even though I know breaking up was for the best.

So no, saying a relationship won't make these guys happy is just platitudes. The truth is, for many people, their dream and goal are to have a loving relationship and maybe start a family. For others, they take it for granted and have something else they long for.

We know that desperation is unattractive, so we usually hold these feelings in. Sometimes these feelings crop up and sometimes they are buried.

It is hard out there for everyone, but especially for the shy guy.

[Whistling_Dixie]

If you end it now, it will be it. No more. It's not like you will get another life. You'll be done. There won't be any more chance to get a girl for sure because you will be worm food.

Why don't you ride this life for a while? What do you have to loose? Maybe one day things change and you can get a girl? Who knows? Being dead is a sure way to find out, isn't it?

It's like staying up all night not being able to sleep and all that is on TV is a stupid informecial. But if you turn the TV off, then you will be left sitting in the dark. Let the TV going maybe the sun will come up sooner than you think?

[Agrojag]

You've seen a lot of happy couples? I haven't. I think your perception of relationships and women is unrealistic. And based on what you're expecting you're going to be severely disappointed. Learn to find enjoyment in other ways. There are plenty of options. Trust me, having a girl around is not all that fun most of the time.

[SidneyBernstein]

Wow that's crazy. I would definitely say that suicide is never an option. But I also feel your pain. This single shit sucks. Some days I just want to sleep in my bad all day and cry but I feel like if I do that then the bitch who broke my heart wins and I can't allow that. The loneliness kills me, but I also feel like I'm misunderstood. I agree with thatgirljess in that you should take it easy, just because we're single isn't the end of the world. We have shit to offer, but it takes the right person to come in our lives to help us realize our full potential.

[Anonymous]

31 going strong. this is all nonsense, this world is real hypocrisy. If you are a nice person, ready to help, trying to live life your religion suggest or even if you just believe in god and spirituality. You have written your loneliness death sentence. Go be naughty, do things you would call others as wrong.
Girls inherently like jerks and naughty but every body will preach you become a good guy. Good guys don't get girls. By thinking too much you are wasting time of this precious life. don't listen to any one, not even me. just be idiot and jerk you will find a girl.

[X99JC]

Just down on my luck, tired of being alone for so long and these dating apps with that ya gotta pay for suck, so many fake people I don't know where to go or who to talk to. I'm from the Buffalo area of NY and it's difficult to find options or decent woman who wants a legitimate relationship.

[Homerbear]

I've been relaxed for two years... I haven't had a relationship for 4 years my last lasted 6 years, its hard to rebound from that, the first two years I was happy being single the next two years I felt been an emotional yo-yo, well its Saturday night and I'm kicking back typing here and watching Top Gun... the joys of being single and lonely, just wish I had someone special to spend my Saturday with...

[Anonymous]

If all it will take to get a girlfriend then don't worry. You can join a dating agency, they will help you get a girlfriend. They are a little xpensive; I think there like $1500 but you're guaranteed at least 3 dates.

[KempisMC]

I agree , so see happy people when alone, but there is always HOPE, Hope is all we have.

[talented84]

Im so lonley. Im tired of being alone every second of the day. Im tired of crying. Im tired of my son asking , whats wrong daddy, dont cry. Some one give me a chance. I can't do this much longer. My heart is to big to have no one to share it with

[moviedude714]

seriously, why is it the "masculine" thing to go after what you want? that really pisses me off

[simpleman69]

What's up I'm new suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem hang in ask God for help you ll get it

[deadman]

26 years going strong

[Loftis]

29 years going strong

[manishparwani007]

i 'm so alone i have not any girlfriend..

[saif9876]

lonely need a girl friend anyone one vote it

[AnonCloud]

Hey. A year late, but I hope that you're still ok.

[Anonymous]

I am tired I'll bring along today

[swapniljainlodha]

iwnt a girlfriend