Should I feel like a loser for never having a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I am getting to that ripe age of 23, where by now people my age have experienced at least one relationship. The thought of rejection shoots my confidence down. How do you get over this?

[Anonymous]

Men need to stop falling into the trap of judging their own value through female validation. Focus on your purpose, your strength, building your body, changing the world, or helping others. Why do I only ever see posts like this about gf?

Why do I never see posts asking...

''Should I feel like a loser because I have not figured out how to stop thinking?''
''Should I feel like a loser because I have not opened my own business?''
''Should I feel like a loser because I have not changed the world?''
''Should I feel like a loser because I have no ''dissolved'' the ego?'
''Should I feel like a loser because I have not built any muscle this month?''
''Should I feel like a loser because I have not found my purpose?''
''Should I feel like a loser because I have not built my own house?''
''Should I feel like a loser because I am addicted to porn and masturbating?''

Stop worrying about women, get on your purpose and master your self.

[Dchrls78104]

First, you are not a loser for never having had a girlfriend. I'm pretty ancient (42) and I've never had a girlfriend either; so there's hope for you. Next, look in the mirror. What are your standards, beliefs, principles, and values? Use these to determine the kind of woman you want in your life, and ignore/reject any girl who doesn't represent what you stand for. Never compromise or settle; you would only be selling yourself short and it will end up as a dead loss. Remember that your dignity, your sanity, and your self-respect are far more important than having a woman in your life.

[Succubus_On_Lockdown]

Get Rejected.


This advice may come off as cold, but if she says no, what worse could possibly go down after that? Nothing. Get rejected, realize how insignificant it is and try again.

[Agape93]

By growing a spine and trying? Yeah rejection sucks but you have to get over it eventually otherwise you’ll get nowhere and become bitter.

[Apope16]

If you have never had a long term or serious girlfriend... no big deal.

If you haven't even had a short term gf? Yeah. Thats loser status. Never ever tell a girl youve never had a girlfriend. I hope to help you get a girlfriend soon

[Anonymous]

I've never had a girlfriend either and I'm 24 this year. Honestly don't let it bother you it will affect your confidence and ruin your chance to any future potential matches. Also never tell a woman this until she's ready to hear it (meaning ur already dating)

[boggboss]

You are the only 1 in charge of changing this if you don't like it change it man yes it is scary but decide what it worst being rejected or never trying and grunting you will be alone forever

[outside_Toronto]

You should feel however you think you should feel. How do you get over it; you do something about it, like get a girlfriend. Successful people have far more failures than successes... so... yeah... get over it

[Avicenna]

You shouldn't feel that way and it's anyhow a waste of time. Just try to meet women and you'll get a girlfriend.

[MountAverage]

"I'm getting to that ripe age of 23..."

... aaaand you've lost all credibility.

[7771999]

I dunno. I don't feel like such a loser because of that

[Anonymous]

It is better than having been in a relationship and still end up a loser.

[evilpiglet]

Nah, you just haven't found the perfect her for u

[anmari2001]

dont say that then i am a loser too

[LEADFOOTboi]

you get over it by... rejecting them first