Nope. Did that once with the most entitled cishet white American boy. Never again.
Someone who isn't capable of paying attention when their partner is speaking to them isn't worth my time.
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I'm sorry, did you say something? I wasn't listening.
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No. I was talking to a younger neighbor the other night. He was the type to go off on long rants to questions, but not listen to little bits shared in between, as normal conversations tend to go. He was looking all around. Making faces as if he was going to loose his next train of thought. It was a bit amusing. Eventually I just gave up and asked questions, only listening to his replies. He was more than happy to give them. After five min it was old. Ten and I was ready to go. Date that? Hard no.
Depends. Are they trying to pay attention? ADHD does make concentration really hard for some people, speaking as someone who has it. Even if I try to focus on what someone is saying, I get distracted by a one part of what they're saying and go down a rabbit trail that makes me miss half of the conversation.
For me, if my potential partner isn't interested in anything I have to say, is always cold and distanced without even making an effort to give me a chance or just doesn't listen and/or pay attention to anything important or otherwise I have to say, then that's a massive red flag for me and she can hit the road.
Thinking your partner isn't worth the time of day or never paying attention to anything they say or do is just plain rude and disrespectful.That is not a healthy relationship. Communication is crucial part of any relationship so my answer is no.
that could be an interesting date...
I would just say whatever outrageous thing I can think of, and then keep it up, escalate it... till she does pay attention to it, lol...If the girl isn’t paying attention Then I can just manipulate her into paying attention. It’s not hard to piss someone off.
All you gotta do is Get a bag of balloons and fill it with Ice cold water and throw it at the girl.
She will pay attention but I would be Worried if Throwing a Ice cold Filled water balloon does nothing no anger no Reaction like throwing a balloon at her and No reaction would make it look like she isn’t even there.No. Communication in any relationship is really important to me. If he doesn’t communicate then he’s not interested and simply not worth my time and energy
that is just the worst. no. obviously they are just not that into you if you can't even have a normal conversation together
Short answer, No
If your soon to be girlfriend/boyfriend can't even listen to you, what is the purpose of that particular relationship?That would go over like a lead balloon. Communication is the key to any good relationship.
Could work lol. If I am introverted anyway spend time all alone as I currently do I don't talk much to anyone so I would be fine at doing that but now with someone to cuddle and sleep with. Sounds not that bad to me.
Depends, if she is doing it purpusefully then no, but some people like me could easily be distracted and have hard paying attention for a long periods of time, but you could always figure things out
No. Im a talker so him being both a talker and a listener is a huge deal.
I've tried that one. With my guy friend/crush. And he turned me down. If I was that girl. I'd rather not go there.
Any married guy who says “no” is a liar. You know she doesn’t listen to a damn thing you say.
No that´s one of the biggest turn-offs to me because if the other person doesn´t listen to you it´s a sign they are using you.
It's clearly dismissive. But sometimes necessary if you're dealing with a toxic individual.
I was too young so I learned. He only listened when I had him in my hands lol.
No that would be very annoying, I would feel like a terrible person if I didn't listen to them as well. A relationship can't work like that.
Nah this ain't a relationship if there's only one side listening 👈🙏 the best thing is to speak everything like one's true intentions.
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