I'm so desperate, is there anything I can do about it?

[Anonymous]

I'm hopelessly in love with a beautiful girl who's a few years younger than me, but she doesn't even consider me at all. Wherever I approach her, she turns her naked back on me and goes away without saying a word. I feel heartbroken, and I don't think I will ever be able to love another girl, what can I do?

[SueShe]

There is not much you can do if this lady is not interested in you. All you can achieve by insisting too much is that she perceives you as a potential threat and acts accordingly.

The feelings you have are not really love but simply infatuation. This infatuation will go away if you stay away from this woman. Don't attempt to stalk her or to talk to her if she clearly made you understand that she is not interested.

You don't even know whether she is already in a relation and by insisting, you only make things worse for both of you.

Concentrate on your studies and education instead. This has priority over women. You will have enough time later in life to get into trouble.

[Asker]

Infatuation doesn't last that long

[PrettyPriya]

From the asker’s other replies to opinions, I’m concerned.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Glad to hear that you took my advice and went to Terminal 3. Hope you have a great stay and don't forget your handstand from time to time :-)

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Also, my best regards to Mr. B** and hope he is doing well.

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe thank you for the advice. It came in handy in getting myself to the right country. I did happen upon a curious place.

www.changiairport.com/.../auntie-anne.html

I passed along your message and he is most appreciative. He did not understand me at first because I was upside down as per your advice.

Once I had righted myself (or wrong way up…. I’m so confused) he did get the message. 🙂

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Aunt Annie's pretzels look yummy but not nearly as good as yours I must assume.

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe I will admit that I was tempted to try one for comparison purposes. I did, however, resist the urge as I am supposed to be fitted for a dress at the end of the week.

It is for some sort of big event at the end of the year…. I am told. 🙂

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Ah yes, I know. Those events do not tolerate an ounce of added "padding".

[AmandaYVR]

Nope, nothing you can do. Sometimes people just aren't into you. (Especially when there's an age difference, this is something that often can't be reconciled.)

Watch this movie.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001508/reference/

[ElementoP]

That right there is why she avoids you. That is desperate, it's also creepy and pathetic. Get over her, work on yourself and learn who you are. Once you can stand yourself, girls will too

[RoulOB]

Try to get to know her.
What she likes.
Just be around her doing your stuffs.
She will notice you.
Also take care of yourself and your self confidence.

[Asker]

How can I found out what she likes?

[RoulOB]

Where do you see this girl?

[Asker]

I happen to meet her in several places, but her back is always naked

[RoulOB]

Well, try to ask her for a walk, or something relaxed.
Change approaches, depending of her reactions.
Be yourself
If you will eventually being rejected, you will hurt and then time after time you'll forget.
She may be too young and don't want a relationship. Or she's in love with someone else.

[Asker]

I'll never forget her

[RoulOB]

I know, you'll never forget.
But you will think better and not feel desperate.

[Asker]

How?

[RoulOB]

Time

[Guy13]

She’s not interested and the more you push the more she will dislike.

[Asker]

Then how do I get her to like me?

[Guy13]

You can't force love...

[Avicenna]

Meet another one. There are plenty of women out there.

[Asker]

I don't want another girl

[Avicenna]

When you get excited about a woman, it’s easy to get tunnel vision and obsess over her, but over time you’ll meet other wonen who are interested in you, and you’ll forget about this one that isn’t interested.

[Asker]

I will never be interested in any other girl

[loveslongnails]

LMAO "turns her naked back on me"? You're a troll.

[ElementoP]

Lol, ya I'm starting to get that vibe too

[KrakenAttackin]

We have all been there. All I can say is, move on. She is at her peak SMV and has a hundred swinging cocks chasing her.

[moviedude714]

Love and relationships can definitely be cruel

[Anonymous]

Live on. Another will come. This one is letting you off easily.

[Andro36]

In a few years you will remember this with a smile. She is just not for you. Thats it.

[Anonymous]

Gotta move on bro, their are lots of fish in the sea.

[Asker]

I don't want another fish

[Agape93]

How old are you and how old is she?

[OddBeMe]

Naked back? Why is she naked?

[Twalli]

Accept that love isn't always reciprocated