Is it possible that anxiety makes a guy feel his partner does not love him and quickly move on to other relationship?

[Deimy]

[DaveJord]

Absolutely anxiety it's a big factor in dating regardless of if your a man or women. I am 46 years old myself, and at this point in my life I have a low threshold for anxiety when it comes to women. When I was younger I had a higher threshold for it, because I would put up with a lot more things just to get laid regularly.

But now days I live by the mantra... That when two people meet and they are meant to be together they make it as easy as possible on each other to be together and work through issues together. Once that level of anxiety or insecurity within any given relationship starts to build... I cut ties and move on, because obviously its not meant to be or its not worth the frustration or hassle to me. I say this because I have dated enough women to know there is always someone else out there, because there has always been.

The only difference for me at 46 verses me at 25 or 35 is that I am more able to recognize a good women when I got one and appreciate her a lot more for all the things she does do for me, instead of stressing over the things she doesn't. So I am more willing to put more effort into hanging on to a goof women, instead of playing games with someone who is not on my level just for the sex.

A good women is some that appreciate me for all the things I do for her and stress or hassle me for the things I don't... or stress over trivial things that ultimately should not matter. She makes things as easy for me and I do for her, and we respects and appreciates other equally for it.

[Deimy]

The thing is that he prioritized his work over me never had time for me and when I argued for that he was so angry and said " that I am destroying his feelings" and he blamed me " for not loving him" when I did

[DaveJord]

Yup... then he is not a person that places as much value on the things you do for him. Like I said when it is meant to be then you both make it as easy as possible on each other. So if you do not think he is doing that for you then your just making it easier for him not respect you.

Don't allow yourself to be emotionally or mentally manipulated or abused. Neglect is a form of abuse.

Once you start to feel that you are doing more to maintain his life style then he is for you then you have to revaluate everything, before you lose yourself in this relationship. I was in a 20 year marriage with a very talented emotional manipulator and that is exactly the things she would say to me. You try to talk about things and they would deflect the argument back on you as if you did really loved them then you would understand and do more or say less. These types choose their victims very wisely.

So at this point it sounds like you are not making it easy for him, and he is not making it easy for you... so honestly do you think it meant to be?

[Deimy]

Not cause he search for someone easy, where he does not have to put effort

[Deimy]

Arguments is the part of relationship and he wanted to make me jealous by saying to me that his new girl is better cause she is his collegue and understands his job and does not argue for that which means she does not need a lot of attention. Why she does not need it? She does not see it as serious

[20yearsolder]

Anything is a possibility, maybe he was just there for the pussy