There's not much you can do but be generally supportive and shrug off her doubts. It's mostly up to her to sort out. After a while, or many times of this coming up, you might want to just dismiss it and not entertain talking about it anymore. (Does she bring it up?) Act like it's a non-issue. You've probably already said all the encouraging words, so what else is there left to say, but repeating them ad infinitum?
Tell her to not spend so much time on social media, looking at other girls' beauty. It's probably a large cause. But girls have always compared. She needs to see her value as something more than just her external. When she learns to appreciate what her other assets are, she won't place so much important on it. Try distraction, actually. Change the topic, engage her mind.
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You must be her biggest fan. That means supporting her ideas and goals.
Why would you want your girlfriend to be content being overweight? She knows she’s overweight and she wants to fix it but you are essentially saying it’s ok to be fat…stop telling her it’s ok. She wants you to motivate her to workout and lose weight. She wants you to help her better herself. Get her a gym membership or start working out with her. Instead of trying to make her comfortable being overweight, start buying her workout clothes and tools, yoga mats, and things to help her schedule to be healthy. Help her change her diet. She will be exponentially more happy to lose weight than staying the same weight. Stop trying to get her to accept being overweight. It’s never good to be overweight and it’s best to immediately diet and workout.
My friend, it’s simple, work out together, be the person 30 years from now today, and staying fit and looking fit has more benefits than knowing you’re not fit and being told comforting lies. I get as men we have to tell comforting lies to our significant others sometimes but not when it comes to health
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If she wants to lose weight, you should be supportive rather than trying to convince her not to. I
Sorry, but we tend to be stubborn like that.
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