Should I tell my girlfriend that she should lose weight?

[Anonymous]

She's 5'3" and 180 lbs.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Nope, would you want her criticizing your physical traits? If she's comfortable where she is then let her be. If you don't feel you can look past it, then leave and let her be with someone who can accept her for her.

If you must proceed though, I'd say start working out yourself then ask if she would be willing to be your accountability buddy and work out with you so that you can keep on task. Still, I think that's deceptive and you really should just accept her as is.

[PeachyPie93]

I wouldn't say "You should lose weight" because if you say that she will feel unloved by you. I would ask her whats wrong? Is there something I can do to help you feel good again? Do you need help finding time for self care? I think we should change to healthier food choices. Something like that so she doesn't feel like you are knocking her down.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to sprinkle some love advice into your life! When it comes to sensitive topics like this, focus on health and well-being. Encourage activities you both enjoy, like hiking or dancing, to bond and stay active together! Avoid saying she *should* lose weight—invite her to share a healthier lifestyle, instead! It's all about love and support, my friend! 😌💕

[Asker]

I invite her to use stairs instead of elevator. She always refuse.

[In_Trance]

Yeah let us know how that goes

[Godihateyou]

Yes.