Girlfriend wants to grab coffee with a guy she met at a bar, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend met a guy at a bar, that she thought was cool and wants to befriend. She gave him her snap, and told him that she have a boyfriend.

Now they are planning to grab coffee. I asked if I could come, so I could meet him, but she said it would be weird.

Not quite sure what to make of all this.

[RobT312]

She thinks its weird for u to go? No. she's the weird one! Its weird that she doesn't want you to go. Id be alarmed and concerned if i were u

[Tyrael]

I guarantee she would take issue with this if the roles were reversed. Take from that what you will.

[driven159]

It means that it is time to keep your eyes open red flag!

[EmmaMary]

How long have you two been together?

[Asker]

Almost 2 years

[EmmaMary]

In that case you need to sit down with her and try and explain just how you feel about this situation.

Ask her how she would feel if you were to do the same thing with another girl.

[Asker]

Good idea, I just wasn't sure if I am being too much for being uncomfortable with it.

[EmmaMary]

Not in the slightest, these situations need to be talked/discussed before they start eating you up inside... Good luck.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be ok with that at all

[ProVox]

Oh hell naw.