My ex wants to meet up for coffee, what do?

[Anonymous]

My ex girlfriend from two years ago texted me from out of the blue asking me how I've been, what I'm up to, etc. She then asks that we should meet up for coffee and I agree telling her once I have a free day we should do it. It's been almost a week and I haven't texted her back because I'm so nervous. She gave me no reason why she broke up with me when she did, but I'm guessing it's because I professed my love to her and she wasn't ready for that stuff. Anyways what should I do? How do I ask her to meet for coffee? And why does she want to meet up after all this time? Thanks in advance!

[mshaker]

Its upto you man, the balls in your court. She did come back.

You said that she texted you first to see how you are? Did she ask you out for coffee or are you trying to take her out for coffee?

If she hasn't asked to go for coffee yet, I wouldn't say anything about meeting up yet. I would reply nicely, very very cool and collected. You said that you scared her off before? cause you told her you loved her? so you might not wanna come on too strong this time, just take it day by day.

I would honestly try to see if she continues communication with you after this reply you send her. aka her texting you more. Then I would ask her if she wants to grab a coffee or do something maybe a little more exciting then just coffee. But its upto you. I'm sure you will be able to handle this accordingly.

[loucipher666]

I think that in most situations like this girls just want to see how you're doing and that you're happy and they're not trying to get back with you. Just my honest opinion from experience.sorry guy.

[beachbabe21]

I'm very confused...in the title it says your ex wants to meet up for coffee, then you ask how to ask her to coffee? Anyway, to answer the question in the title, you need to do what you think is best. More than likely she wants to rekindle things, and if you aren't interested in doing that it would probably be best to just ignore her phone calls. If you miss her and want to try it again, accept the invitation to coffee. It really just depends on how you feel about it.

[bettybets]

I think she may have been thinking of you recently and this may be her chance to let you know the reason she broke up with you. Just bring up going out for coffee casually. Say, "Hey. I've got some free time this week and I was wondering how's your schedule for meeting for that coffee you mentioned" something like that. Something unassuming.

[Anonymous]

well if it will help as closure I would go

[eveline]

tell her no I don't want to