Should I ask my ex boyfriend out for coffee ?

[summerlove34]

we remained friendly after the break up, and talk from time to time. I really wanna see him and catch up, but I don't know weather or not I should text him ask him to meet up for lunch or coffee. I just feel like he's going to say no and I don't know if he's seeing anyone.. any advice ?

[martyfellow]

The only way to find out what's going onis to ask him for coffee. If he says no, it means he's still upset about the break-up, or he isn't comfortable talking to you now, so you're not really friends.

So ask him, and you won't have to wonder about him.you will know. If he says yes to the coffee, you'l lprobabl then find out if he is dating anyone now..

[maiez]

You should ask him, its a low risk high reward circumstance. Just text him now and ask if he wants to get some food or coffee tomorrow and catch up

[SarahP]

I think you should go for it. He can say yes or no. Yes, you get to catch up. No, your situation is how it has been.

Just figure out the best way to approach it. Like, "hey. I was wondering if you wanna grab a coffee with me and catch up?" Just keep it light and upbeat. You may be pleasantly surprised.

Good luck!