Should I ask my ex out for a drink?

Me and my ex broke up in September. We dated for almost 7 years and i've known her for 8. We seemed to have grown apart in the summer as I was working a lot and I moved out of my moms and into my own place. Long story short After we broke up in September (initiated by her). We went cold turkey, neither of us reached out to one another at all, even though i found out that she had messaged my whole family and called them around Christmas time to wish them a merry Christmas. Now in the last couple months she has messaged me out of the blue, asking how things are etc etc. In the last 3 weeks however she's reached out to me in a more cryptic way or so it seems. We used to watch game of thrones together and she's been messaging me the last couple weeks about it, asking where and how she could watch the new episodes. Now what I find weird is why ask me? She could've just googled it or asked someone else. She's been making contact more frequently like that in little ways and I was wondering if maybe she's hinting at something? I know she's also been creeping on my social media cause she accidentally liked one of my pics on IG and unliked it quickly Should I maybe ask her to go for a drink or coffee or dinner? does that seem desperate? I would like to see her but I dont want to alarm her or make her feel like I want to get back together. I know she's still single and not seeing anybody.


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  • You should definitely talk to her. After that long of a relationship, it's hard to stop contact. It seems that the two of you were big parts of each other's lives. Maybe it'd be best to talk things over. It could either help you both move on, or maybe respark the fire that was once there. Good luck man.

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What Girls Said 3

  • You should deff try it won't hurt plus like you said you've known each other for a long time catching up and grabbing coffee or lunch can rekindle good memories. Either way you'd have a friend back

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  • I would definitely go for it. good luck!
    And no that doesn't sound desperate.

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  • Go for it! ask her for a coffee that't the most relaxed option

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What Guys Said 1

  • The only reason to see her again would be to try to get back together. Do you want to do that? If so, why? If you couldn't make it work after 7 years, why do you think you could make it work now? Wouldn't you rediscover the same problems that you had before?

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