Opinion!! He said my voice is little deep when we met should I drop him?

[Anonymous]

Like we met 2 times total.

1 st time we met i saw him where he told me to meet and gave hugs. Then we both planned to buy some milkshakes but on me. He agreed and when i was ordering it he basically said my voice is deep.

Out the blue 😂 while i done ordering like wtf? None of my ex ever EVER said anything esp on a 1st date to the movies.

Then 2nd date he plans again and we went to the restaurant and ofc i offered to pay and he said “ I’ll get the drinks then and u sure?” im thinking drink welll mines only a coke lol 😂 then he asked about how many babies i want bit taken back by it lol 😂 My ex only asked quite while after we got into a relationship. unlike this guy

Anyways i always bring money so not a problem. But he could’ve paid since it was His idea or offer even offer he didn't even offer to pay i dont expect but i would like the gesture. hence i asked ill pay for mines which i did

and now he wants to meet me again he is flying from holiday back here on a Sunday and he wanted to come down mines on Monday after work. i have an exam he still wants come lol im not feeling it much he seems head over heels af

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Maybe you have a smokey voice that is sexy in a woman but no I would send that guy on his way there is other fish in the sea don't waste your time with him

[Asker]

what about the rest do you think i should still meet him

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker The guy seems to depend on you to pay for the dates unless he offers to pay
but this would make me wonder also he shouldn't be making comments about your voice
being a little deep that's crazy.

[Asker]

ikr he didn't offer thats the thing idm if he offered but he didn't even when the waiter came i didn't say nothing he didn't then i said ill pay mines and he kept asking if im sure lol and now he wanna meet me again on Monday comin after work lol 🙄 idkkkk

I feell so stuckk he so invested emotionally saying “ i can't live without u” “ your the only woman for me” bare cringey shitt

[Asker]

ikr i didnr say nothing werid me lol 😂 fs uhh and i argue with him so he can fuckin leavee cuz he said “ no matter if it takes 2.4.20 years i will make u trust me and i want to be with you forever “ basically im like wtf bro we only been 2 dates not a relationship smhhh what do i do 🥺🥺🥺🥺

[Asker]

and he even works full time i go uni and do part time so he can easily pay fuckin £22🤣🤣I always bring money with me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker Yes, I believe there is something just not right with him hope you can get this solved

[Asker]

what do you think it is

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker Well, he sees your willing to pay but I'm baffled about what to tell you, I guess give him a chance and see if things change with him but always go by how he speaks and his body language and just see if things get better with him

[Asker]

wow well today while having a convo he said “ your dumb” tf so brought up how he commented on my voice saying im dumb like on call 5 mins ago on call.😤😤😤😤 And called him a little boy and said no wonder ur single and i said also “ u say gentleman but ur faar from it”

he kept saying calm down listen to me and he even denied it alll completely no hesitation he blantly fucking LIED THEN WOWWWWW BLOCKED HIM NOW

question is shall i completely drop him

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker Yeah, his actions are not too good at all

[Asker]

yeah i know right he must be sad unable to sleep and maybe eat but his fault and the fact he said he HATES liars but denied saying all that n calling me dumb and commenting about my voice etc smhhh when i do unblock imma jus say we can be friends or part ways if we cannot be friends im fine with it either way I dont care

[spartan55]

What do you mean "he basically said my voice is deep"?

[Asker]

thats what im telling u what he said but he worded it differently but he said my voice is deep basically in short is what i meant I don't know lol

[spartan55]

So is it possible you misinterpreted what he was saying?

[Asker]

how when he said that what else could it mean

[spartan55]

You can't or won't say exactly what he said for some reason.

[Asker]

cuz that was few weeks ago but thats what he means duhhhh

[spartan55]

You sure are making a big deal out of it... whatever it is he said.

[whereismyjohnny]

The only red flag I see here is him asking about kids 😅

[Asker]

hm i thought so to and the voice part😅

[Anonymous]

Just admit you have been screwing. That’s the only reason you still talking with him. You like him in some type of ways.

[Asker]

listen i didn't give him nothing physically so dont assume shit from ur little hollow head 😂 yeaahh some ways but the comments he made of my voice on first meeting was rude none of my ex ever saod that or spoke about babies not tilll we was in a relationship and he already told his fam about me and said he can't live without me lol bur doesn't invest in me tho

[xJayleenx]

Id give him a chance and see

[Asker]

hmm 🤔 yeaah been 2 dates i paid ofc if he at least offered n i paid still i wouldn't mind lol and the babies is werid on a first meeting and esp comments on my voice

[xJayleenx]

Okay yeah I see what you mean lol okay now that I think about it that is a red flag