Hello, I am having a lot of trouble to understand what people really mean especially in the dating area. I am hoping some of you could help me understand so I can decide what I should do. Sorry if my story is quite long.
So a while ago I (F) went out with a few coworkers and at the end of the evening I have kissed with one of them (M). Afterwards there have been some text messages but not many. These text messages had kisses and shy smiley faces in them. He also asked me to go for a drink the day after that during the day.
We met at his house to have drinks (non alcoholic). I stayed there for 4 hours and we also kissed. When kissing we eventually laid down on the couch. I used a joke to get off of him and just talk further. We also talked about us not being interested in one night stands or emotional sex. He even said he had a period he thought he might have not been interested in sex etc. at all. This was all during a good conversation. He even said he might wants to do other work in a few months and made some comments which he ended by saying ''these are things you shouldn't say so soon''.
Somewhere in the middle of the meet up things changed. This was after all of the above. We just talked and he barely looked at me. The conversation was very one-sided he was only talkng about himself and not in a good way. He basicly only said things that would turn somebody off completely. He even said his ex is smoking hot and that I am not his type (looks). I joked a few times that it looked like he wanted me to leave as soon as possible and he said that most people already would have ran away by now.
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At the end we walked towards our cars (he was going somewhere else) and his car was one stair further down. He just stopped at the stairs on my floor and said ''I have to go one more down''. I actually figured he would walk me to his car. After that he hugged me and said see you on Monday.
After the meet up I had a strange feeling and didn't know what to think. Later that day I asked him if he had done the thing he would do that night. We didn't really talk much after.
