My boyfriend and I were talking about our relationship, like long distance (none of us both belive in it), cheating, past ex-es etc. And what than he was like: yeah, i wouldn't mind if we were away from each other for like 3-4weeks and you slept with some other guy...
I mean, I wouldn't be okay with it. And I am a bit shook...
I knew he ha this kind of thoughts in the past. We have know each-other for 2years before we got together, we used to spend a lot of time together because of uni, and also hooked up here-and-there. At that time he was also like: "yeah, I don't see myself with just one woman, I want to have a wife and family, but sex is just a physical thing and I want us to have other sources of 'physical-relief' other than each-other. Of course we will be there for each-other and support emotionaly all the time." I dont agree with these statement at all, so when we got together, I made him clear that this won't be the case with us, and he is okay with that.
But now he comes out again and says that he would be okay with it, if i did it...
What the hell am I supposed to think/do with this?
I mean, I wouldn't be okay with it. And I am a bit shook...
I knew he ha this kind of thoughts in the past. We have know each-other for 2years before we got together, we used to spend a lot of time together because of uni, and also hooked up here-and-there. At that time he was also like: "yeah, I don't see myself with just one woman, I want to have a wife and family, but sex is just a physical thing and I want us to have other sources of 'physical-relief' other than each-other. Of course we will be there for each-other and support emotionaly all the time." I dont agree with these statement at all, so when we got together, I made him clear that this won't be the case with us, and he is okay with that.
But now he comes out again and says that he would be okay with it, if i did it...
What the hell am I supposed to think/do with this?
