Please help, I REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT HE MEANS?

[claudia3698]

Why would a guy want to hold your hand randomly and den say few days after he wants to take it slow, and get to know me better? What does this mean? Is he playing me or something else?

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

@claudia3698 If you're afraid of getting played... You're with the wrong guy. But that's most women. The guy most capable of playing you is the guy with the most options. Sucks to suck.

But is all seriousness chill... This guy is one guy. You really think out of everyone in the world this is the best guy in the whole world for you? Like C'mon. Just chill. Enjoy it. Even if you're getting played. Enjoy the game. Enjoy life. You have no perspective though so you don't understand what im saying.

[Waldoe]

he wants a serious relationship... and that takes TIME... it doesn't happen overnight. He wants to get to KNOW you... your likes and dislikes, your favorite flower, do you prefer cats or dogs... it isn't complicated... take your time...

[claudia3698]

Its like we known eachother for two months and I thought we knew eachother but ig not

[claudia3698]

And also Im scared of getting played over and over again

[Waldoe]

Relationships, (good relationships), take time to develop and grow... rushing things will usually end up Ruining things... do it different this time... maybe you'll live "happily ever after"

[katestar]

If you like him. Then you hold his hand. If it doesn't work. You kiss him on the cheek.

[katestar]

If he holds your hand. That means that he likes you.

[Avicenna]

No, the two things are not mutually exclusive. I'd take what he told you at face value.

[claudia3698]

So you mean I should take it slowly with him and see where it goes?

[Avicenna]

Yeah

[Iron_Man]

He’s taking it slow relax

[Guy13]

No clue. Ask him what he is doing…

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

I wanna hold your hand- The Beatles

[In_Trance]

So ask him