He asked me out to come to a event where we both go regularly but said that it would be even better if I want to geab a coffee with him?

[Anonymous]

Why would it be better to grab a coffee and what did he meant by it would be ”better” ?

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Grab*

[Wise4myage]

So you chat one on one and get to know each other better.

[Asker]

Do you think he’s interested?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, I do.

[Asker]

Platonically or romantically?

[Wise4myage]

Maybe both, you, you need to find out.

[Anonymous]

He wants to switch it up and not do the usual

[Asker]

Isn’t coffee the usual thing to do too?

[Opinion Owner]

Not if you haven't done it together

[Asker]

We haven’t been together to that event either. We’ve been separately there. Also it’s quite crowded too

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh I understand now. Are you paranoid that he's ashamed or has another girl there? I personally wouldn't think that just yet. A coffee place is more quiet and you can hear eachother better. Its more intimate. But the second or third date should be up to you and you can suggest the event

[Asker]

We’ve never met so I thought he meant that he wants to date and not just “ hangout”

[Opinion Owner]

Yea coffee shop definitely means date

[Asker]

Do you think he’s interested?

[Opinion Owner]

For sure